Can anybody tell me how to understand girls feeling?

Question

Because its very difficult to understand , what is going on her heart

I care her lot, I know what she want , what she like what she dislike, but still she doesn't love me , she only wana me as a good friend.She knows that I am the perfact men for her but still she doesnt love me.

Answer 1

if you tell me how can you live on the sun, i will tell you how to understand them

Answer 2

Part of the female's psyche is the desire to feel attracting to other males. When a female feels that she is attractive, then it gives her self confidence, happiness and the feeling of a promising future. How? Well, psychologically a female want to find a male to complete her, protect her, provide for her and give her children. If she is feeling like she is not capable of attracting males, then she will be denied of the previous. Motherhood..etc. Therefore, it sends her to a state of depression. You'll never understand because, in her mind: 1) Men never feel ugly. 2) Beauty is not a necessary feature of the man. He'll get love anyway... 3) You are like the other guys, who she may have a crush on, but never seem to notice and would never approach her.. What you need to do is: 1- Tell her that beauty is subjective. Some men find chubby girls hot while other prefer skinny ones.. 2- Tell her that beauty is not the only key to attracting men, but personality and confidence are other keys to attracting men "not only looks". and there are more keys she needs to discover. 3- Tell her that "chemistry" between a man and a woman isn't "the look" rather the odor of us humans attracting the opposite sex. 4- Tell her that those who she thinks are beautiful girls don't have it all, if a girl is really beautiful it doesn't mean that she will find mister right. we all have to struggle to find him, it's a challenge to all of us. - Note: she was opening up to you because she trusts you. however, whether she likes you or finds you attractive would only be obvious to you, not to us. since she is apparently a close friend to you. All the best to you and your friend! =)

Answer 3

It's very difficult being a woman. Women's brains are wired differently so it's very, very difficult for a man to understand how a woman thinks or feels. And it's hard for a woman to verbalize in very few words how she's feeling to a man, even to a man that is willing to listen and who is trying to understand. That's about all a man can do is make himself available, truly care about what she is saying and just be that shoulder to cry on when need be. You'll never understand exactly where she's coming from but just being that ear for her is all that she really wants.

Answer 4

if u really want to understand a girls feeling u will surely know what is going on her heart.

Don't just take things for granted. Don't expect her to feel the same thing what u want her to feel.

Keep urself open and try to understand her.

Answer 5

Everyone is different. Girls don't even understand themselves sometimes, who are we to understand other girls?
What you need to do is observe. Take note of what she does, how she reacts to things. That's the only way.

Answer 6

You have to realize that women are insane.
They don't think like guys do (obviously).

They are basically emotionally driven. It affects everything they think, say and feel.
That's why they seem to have drastic mood/preference swings.

Answer 7

Talk to her' listen to what she says back to you. If you don't understand' tell her. Always listen and put yourself in her place. If you care about her the right way you will get it.

Answer 8

Dude, if you ever figure this out send me an email or something because guys have beent rying to figure this one out since the dawn of the human species. Women are all different...My suggestion is to talk to her about it and if she on't talk about it, ask her friends, and try to read into what she says....

Answer 9

I would say that is too deep and complicated for any one to answer, even a girl. I would say it start with emotions, and changes based on emotions and things like that

Answer 10

Its very simple. In girls heart is just opposite what she shows on face.
As if she is engry on face, she id happy by heart.
If she says No to something then you can understand it is YES in her heart.

Answer 11

lol. every girl is different never assume they all feel the same.
and if a girl says shes fine- ask her again.
unless she gets too upset the first time.
lol. describe the situation more and i can try to help...