2006-09-05 21:24:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He moved me in about 2 mo. ago. He says he wants his house and his life back. That I need to get my own place. But if I don't come home for the night he tells me that he missed me. I told him I would rent a room for a week, then I'd have enough time to get the next weeks rent together. Then he could have his house and life back. He got really upset, and told me that I should just save the $ up. He keeps giving me mixed signals!!! I don't know what he really wants??? Not that I'm sure he knows either. I really dig on him even though he's 4 yrs younger than me (33/29)
Also I'm white and he's Vietnamese. I'm not sure how his family is going to like him with a white girl? I say that because I 've met some of his friends, but none of his family. He's the youngest of 7, and I'm the oldest of 2. I really want to keep him in my life!!! He treats me like a Queen!!! I really think I may be falling 4 him. I can't lose him!!! He's the best thing to happen to me ...EVER!!! Please help me!!!
2006-09-05 21:36:05 · update #1
You have issue, reread what you wrote....
2006-09-05 21:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the problem with some guys. they don't know what they want actually. They told you taht he needs some space but they don;t like it when you're not there. Ignore him and get away as far away as possible. some men are really jerks. it happen to my friend before!
2006-09-06 04:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you need space too.
Your life does not revolve around his whims. Or at least it shouldn't.
For men, you have to make it real simple.
If he starts freaking out, ignore him. He'll have to either
A.get over it, or
B.not ask for 'space' anymore
2006-09-06 04:32:58 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up and decide what he wants. He can't have it both ways. He needs to trust you and you do need to give him the "healthy" amount of space thats desired in any relationship....Basically, talk about it, discuss it, just don't argue about it
2006-09-06 04:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Don't stop! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to control you.He wants his cake and eat it to.Stand up for yourself. "SPACE" means" I want to do ,what I want to do,when I want to.You sit at home and wait on me.I will call you when I want you and have nothing else to do."
Honey the way I hear men talk to women today-they have no respect for them.Be a woman that will not allow a man to use her as a toy.
you will be glad you did.
2006-09-06 04:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by funnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are like rubberbands. They feel like they've stretched to their limit and need their space but when they feel ready to start again and they need the affection from their partners, they spring back to where they left off. :)
Just give him some time...
2006-09-06 04:28:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the space, if he then freaks out tell him tough he's getting what he wanted.
Play it cool your the best thing he has, if he wants time away from you thats his problem!
2006-09-06 04:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to sit quietly and wait for him to want to be with you. I think it's extremely controlling and if you are not married, leave him.
2006-09-06 04:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, tell him either he stops the bullsh!t or he will never see you again
2006-09-06 04:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Red Dragon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called having your cake and eating it too.
2006-09-06 04:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah. sounds familiar there.
it's not space he wants. he just THINKS he wants space. but actually he's hinting on u to pay ATTENTION to him!!
2006-09-06 04:27:32 · answer #11 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋