i dont know where to begin. its about a guy i guess i was seeing. we were never really official but we really liked each other and didn't date others. now its like im his side line girl...he has so many other girls on the side and it just hit me hard that im slowly losing him...and i feel crushed and humiliated b/c i never dated anyone else..he was it. I want him to myself again. any tips?
2006-09-05 21:16:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put all your happiness on one person. You will date again. But if you want this guy, the only thing you can do is go to him and flat out ask him where you stand. Accept his answer, if he says you are only friends, don't hurt yourself worse by chasing after a dead relationship.
2006-09-05 21:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself if u cant' be u and that's not good enough for him than that's probably saying u were never truly together in the first place. Another spin might be if you lose someone,let them go,and if they come back there yours fore ever. OK one for the road. If i can guess by your name if you are 22 and he is either 18-21 or 23 and up he might have just thought you was just a good friend with all the benefits
2006-09-06 04:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get mixed into this, if you are a side line now you will always be. It is not worth you time and your happiness. I suggest you tell him you are out of his life and move on. If you really cares about you he will changes his ways and make you his only girl.
2006-09-06 04:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would reccomend not hanging out with him anymore, so that you can heal, and move on... But it sounds like you're asking for tips on how to get him to yourself... In regards to that, it is my experience that both people need to want it for it to work... If you try to get him to yourself, and he doesn't comply, you'll probably end up feeling even more hurt. You said he was your first, and often we are crushed by that one if it doens't end the way we want it to... But there are more people to love out there, trust me... Find someone who wants only you... The heartache will heal... The first time will always stick with you, but don't stick with it longer than you should. Take care of yourself, treat yourself well, and find someone that does the same.
2006-09-06 04:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by Corandero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you, id make more friends, and leave an open option, if a guy asks you out, then go on a date if you like him.Dont sit around and wait for him, if he likes you genuinely he will come back. you're worth more then just waiting around for him.
2006-09-06 04:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started out wrong, now you can't correct it. Your going to have to move on I'm afraid. Keep your self respect!
2006-09-06 04:19:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, and give him the choice . tell him "Me Only, or Forget about seeing me again or even talking to me" dont let him explain or talk, just drop these words and leave ad a rocket .. give him few days, and then we will see... please let me kno wwhat happened on my email : qandil@eim.ae
2006-09-06 04:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by Red Dragon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he must be the one who wants you so wait till he comes if he didn't, never try to reach him if u tried you may lose him as fast as u got him.
2006-09-06 04:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋