I have known that i was bi since i was about 14 (im 19 now) but no1 knows and the past few months i have been really turned on by my friend, we share our sex stories everynow and then on the phone n when we do i find myself getting so horny imagining her doing things. When i see her i get so hot and i want to do stuff to her, a few weeks ago i was really horny and i was fantasizing and the only thing that got me off was thinking of her. I dont think she is bi but i have heard her talk about girls n say they are hot but thats it. She may be interested in trying it once but how do i find out without looking like im attracted to her so she wont be freaked out. I only think of girls in a sexual way and i wouldent be interested in a relationship, but she is like my oldest friend and i dont want to reck that, when im around her i feel a bit nerveous bcoz im always attracted to her. I just wish i could be be with her once! What should i do?
2006-09-05 21:06:42 · 13 answers · asked by Poise_1987 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont think she is bi but she may be curious and thats enough 4 me, how can i tell if shed be into trying it with me though?
2006-09-05 21:09:39 · update #1
Ask her if she has ever had a relationship with a woman. If you two are as close as you say, she will probably go into detail about any past relationships. If she has never had a woman on woman relationship, ask if she would or wouldn't. Then go from there. If she says she would never be with a woman, the best thing to do is leave it alone and find someone else. That way, at least you will still have your friend.
2006-09-05 21:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak your mind and deal with the consequences. If you truly are bi then it shouldn't matter that you are friends.
2006-09-06 04:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw her, sounds like just sexual tension.
Sex with girls is fine and fun but you will find out that there is no substitute for a MAN!
2006-09-06 04:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u didnt say if she was bi also.
but i guess the person above me is right.
if she isnt bi, then u may just be riskin what ever friendship u might have together.
but if she is bi, then tell her.
2006-09-06 04:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by Deb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're approaching a girl who is not interested in girls, you risk losing a friendship. Good luck!
2006-09-06 04:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by julielove327 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Invite her for a sleep over... say hey, lets take a bath.... you wash my back, I'll wash yours, so on and so forth.. IF there is a chance, you 'should' know it then... if not, you will also know it and not ruin anything.
2006-09-06 04:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by The::Mega 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think, since you share your sex stories, you would already know if she were bi...
2006-09-06 04:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she bi, do you know for sure. That's were you need to start.
2006-09-06 04:08:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don`t you tell her how you feel over a bottle of wine, you never know she may feel exactly the same...
2006-09-06 04:10:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ease the tension with a drink, then go for it!
2006-09-06 04:10:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋