Me and My bestguy friend have known eachother for 5 years, until about 4mths ago we ended up sleepin together.it was a drunk thing then in june again but that was the last time since. he has a girlfriend that hes been with for a year now, he had told me he loved me after we had sex and and lately has been telling me that alot. He is willing to leave his gf if only i give him the time of day, also i didnt add that the very first meeting of us being friends he has been trying to get with me and asked me over and over again.he would rather spend time with me than his gf when we hang out. ex: if you stay i dont need to go see her (his gf). I dont see him as my type but the sex was great the only orgasm ive ever had,hes veryjealous when im with another guy and gets angry at me whenever i start to talk about my man.but he always comes back and apologizes.problemis i think his cousin is cute and weve hooked up couple timesbefore. i like his cousin more than i really see myself with him......
2006-09-05 20:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by ninanite 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but since me and his cousin had a bitof an issue about where we stood in a relationship its became the status as letsb friends. would this be a issue for me and my guyfriend to deal with after we made it offical.and would i ruin what friendship we have left if things didnt work out. he is really special to me and i dont want to lose him. im not sure if i should take it to relationship status,as i say he aint my type he slightly smaller than me in height.and not usually the looks i go for in a guy. tall darkand handsome he is on the other hand short and alright looking. am i just settling for what i can get? or maybe someone will come along eventually. i dont want to ruin our friendship. please any advice.?
2006-09-05 20:34:11 · update #1
A few things jump out at me right away:
1.) He cheats on his girlfriend
2.) He's not really your type
3.) He's jealous
4.) You like his cousin better
To me this does not sound like the beginning of a great relationship. Keep things as "just friends," because girl, you can find a guy who can please you without being jealous and controlling.
2006-09-05 20:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's with all the freaking drama?
I suggest you stay away from him and his whole family. Including any cousins he may have.
You're just creating problems by fornicating with members of the same family.
The fact that he gets so jealous over you talking to other men just shows that he's TOO CLINGY. Apologies or not. And he obviously doesn't care about his current girlfriend, which is what will happen to YOU as soon as he gets tired of your behind.
FIND SOMEONE NEW!
2006-09-05 20:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be okay with sleeping with guys. Your problem seems to be picking only one guy to sleep with. Sex doesn't seem to matter to you. You mention an orgasm as if it didn't really matter. Some women would think you were crazy. I just think you want to eat your cake and have it to. You can but sooner or later these guys are going to get tired of you and move on. Is that what you want? If not you need to choose one guy or another.
2006-09-05 20:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take some time to decide who between the two you really like more. The first guy seems to be in a knot between you and his girl, so you shouldn't totally trust him yet. If you think that his cousin seems more attractive and more fun to be with, then go for him! ;)
2006-09-05 20:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya need to find out what ya feel about ur guy friend as ur boyfriend! coz sister, ya rollin' on his cousin n feel more of urself with da cousin than him. if ya had da first eva' orgasm n think dat as da ultimate thing happened to ya then sister, ya just walkin' along da beach n ur feet just got wet with breakin' waves !!! see, ya had sex when drunk, it's even worse when he's chitting his girlfriend. he started lovin' ya only after screwin' ... so for me it's more of a physical attraction thingy sister ... may be his girlfriend is a bit old fashion or sterio type in terms of makin' out ... but definately it's not a relationship ya shud take to da next level ... think about it sister ...
2006-09-05 20:37:09 · answer #5 · answered by don_yourmate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two are only after that "sex" thing.
Better be w/ that one you like(his cousin)
2006-09-05 20:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Rhine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think he really loves you, he just finds you a replacement to his gf sometimes. I recommend you don't take your relationship to any higher level.
2006-09-05 20:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin!
2006-09-05 20:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you have really Fu&^%$up i would say just keep banging both who cares you have allready screwed up by banging both of them
2006-09-05 20:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go have sex with every one enjoy
2006-09-05 20:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by killer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋