he avoids my question by saying he is just taking care of me as i am living with him why does he ignore me asking him this ?
2006-09-05 20:01:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he likes u & cares 4u alot but stil doesnt have strong feelings 4u. i knw it sucks... but we cant force them 2 luv us, can we?
2006-09-05 20:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE?, You are living with him aren't you? That equates to convent sex for him. When he wants it, where he wants it and how he wants it!
What is in it for you? Nothing, and when he has had enough or something new shows up - he is out of there and your asking the same ole questions - WHY?
Females always get the sort end of the stick where ever shacking-up is concerned.
How many million more women before you learn that just living together is the males game and the female lost.
Check out how many females are out there with babies and the male is no where in sight!
If you care enough to open your legs, marry him, if not, keep your panties on. No disease, babies, herpes's or any of those other nasties. If he doesn't want to marry, tell him that you have mistletoe on the middle of the back of your skirt, and it is Christmas.
2006-09-06 03:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl i think you need to get serious.. what he means by saying that... why it seems so hard for him to say that he love you?? its as if he is giving you a favour or repaying your favour back just because he is taking care of you... that shouldnt be the way... Girl, ask your bf why he said that... doesnt mean if the person take cares of that person, he/she loves that person...it could mean he has to do it due to some reason or being force to do it... clarify with him on what he means... every girl will want to hear from her bf that he loves her...no matter how many times they say in in a day... because women are more different from man... they are more emotional... they tend to melt by sweet words and promises... and thats the mistakes women make sometimes when they believe so much on just by what they man says... And another reason on why women tend to ask the same question "do you love me?" so many times because they are just emotionally unfulfilled ... so for this, i just dont understand why he cant say the "i love you" word to you... i mean since he "proves" that he love you...then why cant he just say it... if a person loves a person... he/she will try his/her best to prove his love for him/her and would said it in a million times to let the person knows how much he/she loves that person too! So my suggestion is you talk things out with him... ask him and express how you feel about it... how much you feel affected by it... and just hear what his explanation is...Hmm who knows, maybe all this time he didnt realised how much it has affected you because like i said... men are more practical... they are not so good at it...good luck!
2006-09-06 03:18:40 · answer #3 · answered by Faradoves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you right now, and you are pressuring him by constantly asking... which will eventually drive him away. If you really do love him, you will show him through your actions, and wait for him to come around on his own. If it ever gets to a point where you really need to hear it and he isn't ready to tell you, then it's just not meant to be... Been through this before...
2006-09-06 03:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by onin90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys think that taking care of you shows they love you, if thats the case he needs to tell you that.
I would wonder why you moved in with someone that hadn't said he loves you.......why would you do that to yourself babe? Start making arrangements to move on and tell him its because you feel like he isn't in love with you......that gives him the opportunity to say "Of course I love you, I'm taking care of you aren't I"
2006-09-06 03:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by WitchTwo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its becauase he doesn't love you. Or if he does its a different kind of love. And if it bothers you that he doesn't tell you, I would think about ending the relationship, because he will never change. and a person can only be in a relationship so long where they aren't told they are loved.
2006-09-06 03:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a complete moron and clearly doesn't love you. Maybe it's time to ditch the creep and find a man who will tell you he loves you without being prompted into saying the words
2006-09-06 05:56:02 · answer #7 · answered by trog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said this before.. and i duno how many times i wana be repeating it..
If someone loves u, u dont need to ask them neither do they need to tell u... it just shows.. =)
so making him tell u he loves u or not doesnt change anything.. if he does he does, if he doest, he doesnt..
words are just words.. learn to see someone heart.. then everything will fall into place...
Cheers =)
2006-09-06 03:04:48 · answer #8 · answered by Nighteyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask him, I think you answered your own question. An answer like his, probably means that's all it is, and he feels if he leaves you, you'll have nowhere to go. If he really did love you, he would say it enough so you didn't have to ask.
2006-09-06 03:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Curiousmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With reference to your other question looking for decent men in the UK - why are you looking for another guy if you already have a man?? Sounds to me like you're contradicting yourself and its your boyfriend I feel sorry for.
2006-09-06 04:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, some men don't realise that women need to hear these words. Tell him you need to hear them. If he loves you, he'll put your needs first. If he won't - you've got a problem in more ways than one.
2006-09-06 03:46:33 · answer #11 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋