Im bi and attracted to one of my girlfriends! What should i do?

Question

I have known that i was bi since i ws about 14 (im 19 now) and the past few months i have been really turned on by my friend, we share our sex stories everynow and then on the phone n when we do i find myself getting so horny imagining her doing things. When i see her i get so hot and i want to do stuff to her, a few weeks ago i was really horny and i was fantasizing and the only thing that got me off was thinking of her. I only think of girls in a sexual way and i wouldent be interested in a relationship, but she is like my oldest friend and i dont want to reck that, when im around her i feel a bit nerveous bcoz im always attracted to her. I just wish i could be be with her once! What should i do?

I dont think she is bi but i have heard her talk about girls n say they are hot but thats it. She may be interested in trying it once but how do i find out without looking like im attracted to her so she wont be freaked out.

Answer 1

Try and have a sleep over or something and get a bit tipsy. This way u can try touching her and see how she responds, if she responds well kiss her, it shouldent b akward later coz u can blame it on the booze. If she doesnt feel the same then just try and move on but dont reck ur friendship.
Good luck

Answer 2

if she's up to it, i mean you know that also BI, then you can do it with her. If you she's NOT, don't even ask. Maybe she back off and just take care of her moves towards you later on. You said you talk with her about you sexual life, maybe she already knows that you are BI, but she doesn't know you're attracted to her. What does she think about being BI in first place? Is OK with her?

well, i think you know her better.. you can answer these questions or even ask her indirectly.

the important thing is DO NOT LOSE A GOOD FRIEND FOR YOUR DESIRES.

THINK IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN!

Answer 3

Okay- in a bright, daytime open room, Tell her about it.

Back in the dark ages when being a Lesbian was NOT cool~
My best friend felt the same way towards me for three years and didn't tell me. Till one night she "freaked out" over me and my boyfriend kissing on a patio- (out of sight I might add) and totally went freaky on me.

I was offended and felt betrayed that she had lied to me for years. I questioned her motivations and actions over things for the last few years of friendship. I knew she was gay or Bi at the time and that was not an issue at all. She told me everything, except the "truth" of whom she was in love with all that time.

We never really regained that friendship. I found it difficult to trust her anymore and felt "stupid" that everyone knew but me! That is not a friend. In my book. I wished her well and it was a painful release of someone that I loved, but was not and nor never would be "IN love" with. She is happy with a life partner and I am married with kids. Each with the "right" person for them.

So moral of this story- tell the truth- it shall set you free. Your relationship will grow one way or another. I wish you all the best.

Answer 4

DONT do anything serious yet, beat round the bush an see if maybe she might start off as a "friend with benefits" first. then see what happens. this way you aren't to forward with her and....scare her away.

Answer 5

Be honest with her. I am sure that she feels the same about you. Baby, let your inhibitions go and let the feeling run free. You both will be happier about your decision. Tell her how you feel about her....I bet she will say I love you first.

Answer 6

If she's straight, you will probably lose your best friend. Put your efforts into seeking out other women if that's what turns you on.

Answer 7

I find a lot of people attractive. It doesn't mean I have to bonk them all. You could always keep it to yourself.

Answer 8

see if she feels the same way and if she does go for it.

Answer 9

try it on and send me the video,ither that or dont bother lol