I try to keep the jury out for as long as possible so I can observe and learn about the girl before reaching a conclusion. Tolerance leads to understanding. And I've met very interesting girls who were not great looking or quick to warm up. But I get the feeling that the girl often decides much quicker, which I don't think works to my advantage. How quick do you decide and what is your decision based on?
2006-09-05 19:32:54 · 7 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I ask 3 questions before I even go on a date.
1- How long was your last relationship, and why are you no longer together?
2- What is your relationship with your mother?
3- What order do you put these 4 things in: You, God, Family, Work.
Depending on the answers, I will then go out with them. On the date I see how they handle people, conversation, were the conversation leads, what are their goals, where do they want to be in 3 years. Yes, I do size them up very quickly. I don't want to change anyone, or fix them. I want an equal partner. Looks are only skin deep, it is the heart, soul, mind, and their dreams I am more interested in. If that is wrong, then I am wrong, but I sure have been able to weed out some weirdo's in my day.
Good Luck, have fun with them, and keep looking the right one will come along.
God Bless
2006-09-05 19:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ll know if someone is right. put yr diagnostic ways aside and just settle into a relaxing evening with a nice person and you ll soon know if you really like the person, if you start nit picking on every girl you wont like anyone of them.read tips on dating and flirting to help you more on this site
2006-09-05 19:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can decide very quickly. Its all about me. I know what I like and I know what I want. My male friends say that I am too picky, but I don't feel that you should settle for close to you know what I mean.
2006-09-05 19:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I would say follow your inner voice, in order to decide with who you want to be, it has nothing to be with how a person look or how cool they are, I think as soon as you meet that person you know, if there is a chance to succeed as a couple or not
2006-09-05 19:51:29 · answer #4 · answered by eenz0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are as many answers as there are ppl who will answer you..... some are into self, and some are into the other person...... some ppl enjoy meeting new ppl so much they are like you..... others have no tolerance for some personalities..... so go figure human nature...... God bless
2006-09-05 19:39:57 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the decision is made in an instant.
2006-09-05 21:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By dessert....
2006-09-05 19:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋