ok i have this gf right...and i love her....we mean a lot to eachother but i am leaving for the navy in 2 weeks and i dont know what to do...i mean we are talking about how we will make it through it. I will be gone for 2 months for boot camp then an additional 6 for A school.... i dont know what i should do....i guess i am worried that we will drift apart and that is the last thing i want to happen.
2006-09-05 19:29:08 · 13 answers · asked by infamous_snow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same thing happened to me and my now husband. He joined teh Army, left, we talked rarely through boot camp. Once you are in the regular schools, you get more freedom with phone privilages. We stayed together and our relationship grew stronger. We are now married with a 5 month old son. I would try it if you love her. And if it doesnt work out, wouldn't yourather know now?? And just think...whatif it does work out?
2006-09-05 19:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by katbet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships work, it all depends how you both nurture it. Largely depends on men: emails, IM's/chats, SMS/MMS, communications via post, e-cards, greeting cards- whatever you do communicate with each other. Simple things means a lot........it how you show you really care.
I read in a website (www.sermoncentral.com):
A few years ago, the Harry S. Truman Library in Independence, MO made public 1,300 recently discovered letters that the late President wrote to his wife, Bess, over the course of a half-century. Mr. Truman had a lifelong rule of writing to his wife every day they were apart. He followed this rule whenever he was away on official business or whenever Bess left Washington to visit her beloved Independence. Scholars are examining the letters for any new light they may throw on political and diplomatic history. For our part, we were most impressed by the simple fact that every day he was away, the President of the United States took time out from his dealing with the world's most powerful leaders to sit down and write a letter to his wife.
Bits & Pieces, October 15, 1992, pp. 15-16.
2006-09-05 19:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by yunesa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear to be great man , you need not to worry about her too much . She is strong enough to take care of her self in your absence , you must remember that without a stable and good career you will not be able to look after your only love and she will be happy and will be proud to see you progressing in your career , as this small parting sacrifice will help you both to be more romantic for ever . God blessed you with more joy and peace .
2006-09-05 19:43:04 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if it was meant to be it will be, it doesn't matter how long you are a part or how far a part you are. Love conquers all, and if it is really love, then love also endures all.
People do it all of the time. Have faith it will work out....He strong..
Congrats on going in the Navy, be safe, and God Bless
2006-09-05 19:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by cinson1999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
often a relatives that spends time ingesting mutually talks to a minimum of one yet another and it helps open verbal replace interior the relatives. maximum families now days particularly see one yet another and that they in no way communicate so if some thing is faulty they don't understand until its already blown up and the relatives is divided.
2016-11-24 23:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop cause if you stay together something could happen and then it would be ruined if you stop you might be able to pick up where you left off with no hurt feelings
2006-09-05 19:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by mike and shannon R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry about it just give me her number ill take care of her for you while your gone
2006-09-05 19:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by mrgrumps01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to work it out. Definitely.
2006-09-05 19:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Kristen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, distance love will only make each other grow fonder... Relax ok and have faith!!
2006-09-05 19:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by iwanrosly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just stay the night
2006-09-05 19:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋