2006-09-05 19:11:32 · 29 answers · asked by pretty_dafodil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Very bad idea....
2006-09-05 19:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Coming from someone who currently lives with the In-Laws, I really don't recommend it. If you can, I would try to avoid it at all costs. There's nothing like having your own place and privacy to go with it because when you live with them you have none. They know all your routines and nothing remains private. Plus, it gives them an opportunity to judge and criticize you more because they are around you. Marriage is hard enough as it is and it takes a lot of work and effort from both sides with the occasional added stress. Why would you want to add more stress to the marriage by living with your In-Laws? A newly married couple should live alone without the influence, judgment, and invasion of others privacy. Please take my advice into consideration and Best of Luck to you both!
2006-09-06 02:22:03 · answer #2 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What this old woman has to say about living with in-laws is not on you life if you have any other choice. I lived with my died husbands Mother for awhile and it was okay but if I had my way I would live in a big two or three room tent at a lake or in the desert. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-09-06 02:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats a BAD ideal to live with the in-laws. Most people cant get along with their in-law in the first place, others can but living with them is different. Most of them try to run your life, and push their views on you about how things should be done. It gets annoying real quick. I love my in-laws but would NEVER live with them. Unless it was the case where they was old and had medical issues where they need someone to look after them and care for them.
2006-09-06 02:21:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are old enough to get married, you are old enough to support yourselves and get your own place. If you weren't ready financially, maybe you should have waited...Well, I guess it is too late for that now, look for an affordable apartment and I do mean affordable...it won't be the best, but at least you will have each other.Time to grow up guys, mom and dad did their job, don't impose on them. Parents don't often say it, but they like their time alone after all the kids are grown and moved out. Time to go....
2006-09-06 02:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
living with in laws is a no no for me. it's better to live in a small place with just the two of you than living with in laws
2006-09-06 02:14:27 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is from personal experience, please, please do not live with either your parents or his. It will be total disaster. If you do get along with either set, you won't after you start living with them. There will be an unbelievable amount of tension in the house. Tempers will fly, they will not be able to keep out of your business, they will want to tell you how to live, how to spend you money, where to work, when to work. It will be unbearable for you and your spouse. I had to live with my in-laws for a year and a half. I was miserable, I cried myself to sleep every night because my mother in law said mean horrible things to me. My husband wouldn't stand up to her. I finally told her off. I found a home up for auction and took my husband to see it and told him that we could buy it or we could divorce. We still live in that home 8 1/2 yrs later. This is testament to NOT LIVING WITH ANY INLAWS.
2006-09-07 18:18:22 · answer #7 · answered by country girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Live on your own so you can enjoy the specialness, the privacy and the spontaneity. Don't live with your in-laws - even if you love them lots, that's just inviting trouble.
2006-09-06 10:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i believe that if you cannot live on your own and fully support yourselves then you should not get married.
it's a bad idea for a married couple to live with anyone besides the 2 of them.
2006-09-06 09:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by TN girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never with the in laws. NEVER. Even if you have to live in a one room apartment live on your own.
2006-09-06 02:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not live with in laws.
2006-09-06 02:25:18 · answer #11 · answered by luther 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋