unfortunately im really jelous with my guy. i dont know why though. i trust him but it bothers me that he mentions he wants to go out with his friends. i know its not right but there is always one person in the relationship like this. why is it me?
2006-09-05 18:35:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find out why it bothers you when he mentions he wants to go out with his friends their must be a reason...why? you feel this way.....is it because you are all alone........discuss it with him and let him give you the answer.....ask him you want to go out with him and his friends ...good luck
2006-09-05 18:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as you already no, there will always be someone with the tendency to become jealous in the relationship. My thing has always been that no matter whether you a male or female, neither of them should become jealous. Why? Because trust is very important in any relationship to succeed.
Now if your partner enjoys going out with friends more often and tends to leave you out of the picture, then questions maybe raised as to whether or not your partner wants to be with you any longer. I would have a serious chat with your partner and try to get things straight so this way you know where you stand and whether or not the relationship will continue or end.
Good Luck!
2006-09-06 01:48:03 · answer #2 · answered by cool_dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't always one jealous person in the relationship (sorry to spoil your excuse). only insecure people are jealous. you don't trust him otherwise you wouldn't care if he went out with his friends but you get jealous that he mentions it which i think is kinda sad. you need to spend some time working on your self esteem and getting some hobbies. don't base your life on this guy and smother him otherwise he will start to resent you. you need to learn to be happier within yourself. good luck.
2006-09-06 01:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chyea...maybe....if hes ever done anything to u in the past that made you trust him less....depends on how long uve been with him...my gf is like that too but its because my friends are all single and occasionally check out other girls...so maybe if ur bf's friends are like that...but dont accuse him because he might really know u dont trust him...
2006-09-06 04:09:19 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin Alva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possessiveness mentality.
2006-09-06 01:37:30 · answer #5 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily true. I'm not jealous and only one of my girlfriends ever was.
2006-09-06 01:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone has insecurities...most just come out in a relationship
2006-09-06 01:36:56 · answer #7 · answered by Kylie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋