My boyfriend doesn't act like a loving man should. He is always going out with other women when I am out of the state. He says he loves me but then I am hearing that he is out with so and so or when I call him he is talking to some woman on the phone when I call. If I protest he gets angry with me. He thinks I am very funny to get upset. I know that from his past he does not have a good track record with women. He is constanly brothering his ex-wife about what a lousy mother she is and tries to break up her relationship with whom ever she is with. He insults her in his blog for all the ladies to see. I don't know how much more of this I can take. I have given to this man all I can and I am up to my ears with his shennigans. Always an excuse for what he does. I am not even allowed to talk to his ex-wife about her kids he becomes very angry with me and says he will end the relationship. What should I do? End it with him or stick it out. Money is the only thing that makes him happy.
2006-09-05 18:31:14 · 18 answers · asked by dfw7xcrazy55 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've already told him your discomfort regarding seeing other women ...especially the ones you know that are flirting with him . .
If he doesnt respect you wishes, then the only person getting hurt in this relationship is you , , , ...
IMHO, it's not worth staying with a man who doesnt walk the talk . . .
2006-09-05 18:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you should leave him, but not for any other reason than you're miserable. You should never stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy but that's not this guy's fault. You knew what kind of man he was from the start and this has been going on for quite some time. He didn't change when he met you, he hasn't changed since and he's not going to change on your schedule. If he's not enough for you, you should stop wasting your time hoping he'll become your dream boy.
2006-09-05 18:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him. If he thinks his ex-wife is such a bad mother how come the kids live with her? Hes a greedy loser. There is a reason why he is divorced! He and his wife ended it, she has moved on, he needs to do the same. Tell him to go get some anger management and tell his ex-wife she needs to report him as a stalker or something, or get a court order that states he can't have any contact with her or her current bf/gf.
2006-09-05 18:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the deal, i used to be particularly of a "women folk guy" Now im with the girl of my targets. ask your self: could you prefer to be with a guy who hasnt considered or been with a extensive form of whats accessible and is unexpectedly into you? OR be with a guy who HAS been with maximum or all varieties and comes to a decision which you are the only? He might decide which you're,or the two one among you may decide which you at the instant are not meant for another a minimum of you will understand speedy and early,rather of years from now with a marriage and teenagers
2016-11-24 23:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot really understand some people do you have any common since Dump this loser..or just let him walk all over you? Wait i need a women with no brains whats your phone number LOL
2006-09-05 18:41:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should leave his ****** ***....He's even cheatin on you while your out of town...you don't need him!! You can find someone totally better who will wait on you for when you get back and NOT cheat on you....
Try finding someone who doesn't have a "past history" meaning no kids or no ex-wife's or baby momma's...that always complicates things!
2006-09-05 18:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-09-05 18:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've answered your own question I think. To him you're just one of many fish in the bowl. I think it is odd and controlling that he won't let you talk to the ex. Maybe he's afraid of what she might have to say to you about him. I don't think he's even your boyfriend , he's boyfriend to a few people.
2006-09-05 18:37:42 · answer #8 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you think girl ?? this is a very controlling man.... and it sounds as if there is not an ounce of love in him, much less a heart..... he has problems that you can NOT help him with.. get happy...... it is OK for you to want more, so go after it........ but, it is your call and choice......... God bless
2006-09-05 18:37:14 · answer #9 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to remain in a relationship with someone like that ?
Don't you think you deserve better?
2006-09-05 18:38:05 · answer #10 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋