I really like this guy and were really hit it off the only problem is that he has a girl and they been together for 6 years. Do you think that its possible that we could end up together? even though he has a girl we hang out everyday cause his girl went away to college. What should i do?
2006-09-05 18:15:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, relationships that work out best, start out as friendships. Be his friend. Let him get to be comfortable being with you. If he starts to seem at all interested in you (showing you affection like a girlfriend) there is a physical attraction there and I believe by all means you two could end up together. If he doesn't at all show any affection towards you after spending a good amount of time together then he just wants you to keep him company while she is not available. If he hasn't made any advances towards you yet, you may want to try to get affectionate with him to see how he reacts. If all is good - hey - He's not married - He's fair game!!!!
2006-09-05 18:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by momma g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush into anything just yet. If u 2 are meant to be then it will happen. I think if u really like this guy u should find out how he feels about u... not the easiest thing to do i know but u deserve an answer
2006-09-06 01:25:34 · answer #2 · answered by Thunderstruck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's two timing his girl by being with you while she's away. You really want a guy to do that to you? Put yourself in the girlfriends shoes, how would you feel finding out he's hanging out with another woman while you're away?
2006-09-06 01:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find your own man and leave this guy alone. the only way you two are going to be legitimately together (not just a booty call) is if he breaks up with his girlfriend. when two people are involved with one person neither one of you win only he does. if he cheats with you maybe you will have 'won' him but then there will never be a guarantee that he won't leave you. 6 years is a long time and they obviously love each other. you should wait for him to break up with his girlfriend and see other people. when he is single then see.
2006-09-06 01:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the cat is away, then definitely the mice will play. Just be patient, in the long run, you guys are gonna be grooving, and the other girl will have to be told that their relationship is over. Be patient, patience really works, I have had experience, and I know. Good Luck in your endevours.
2006-09-06 01:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by The GunnJack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't try to sabotage his relationship with his girlfriend. Otherwise, karma will get you on that one. But instead, just be yourself, and perhaps subtly let him know you're interested. If it's meant for you two to get together, he'll realize that you're the girl for him, and it'll work out between you two.
2006-09-06 01:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by potassiumbroth4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's life isn't it? When one party is absence, another is filled. Is this guy been fair to the girls? I don't like two timers and sadly, there is one girl going to be hurt. Get the guy to make a decision before sinking yourself further.
2006-09-06 01:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by j t 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situtation u are in and I want to get with the other girl and leave the 1 im with
2006-09-06 01:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly were in the same situation but weve been together for a year , its really difficult for us to wait for a chance its like a hopeless but you can if you really want him... just wait for the right time.
2006-09-06 01:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by babytol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until they are officially over, unless you want to risk some pretty hardcore heartbreak! Don't set yourself up!
2006-09-06 01:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋