Why is it ok to like black, white, or asian woman but not ok to like thin woman? I don't like fatties! Lose some weight if you a fat gurl. I don't like to thin either so no eating disorders!
2006-09-05 18:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by Y 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude ur just being honest. What ever rocks your boat. To many people like to be judgemental because they feel they have the more intelligent or superior outlook but in reality we would make the same decisions if we where in your shoes. In all honesty a lot of men feel the same way but are to afraid to tell the truth. more power to you!
2006-09-05 18:19:03 · answer #1 · answered by X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't offended, but now you're rewording your question. You asked your "fat" question in the context of "commitment". You asked how can you tell if a woman is going to get fat later on in life if you were to commit to her. And my answer was you really can't.
I don't like overweight women myself, so I don't have an issue with that. The fact is I also like my women to look a certain way. I take care of myself and so should they. What I had issue with was the context you presented in it in terms of commitment. That's where I was coming from. And sometimes eating disorders are caused by some other emotional ailments. You're really showing your immaturity and ignorance here. I almost lost a good friend to anorexia so I take your comment a little personally.
Rod
2006-09-06 01:09:30 · answer #2 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a flaw that you can't help? Some people can't help their weight. It hurts some peoples feelings. Even skinny chicks think they are fat. It is just a strong word to use. Weight is hard to control. Especially for woman. We have babies and sometimes we can't lose all the weight. It is a sensitive subject. If you really love someone then the shape of their body shouldn't matter. How old are you anyway. One day you will get fat too. Unless you are a guy that likes to work out everyday and eat right for the rest of your life.
2006-09-06 01:05:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wasn't offended by your fat question. What offended me more was the fact that you want to commit to someone only if they'll hold up to your standards for the rest of their life. That's not love, that's a dictatorship and it's also what lends to the 50% divorce rate.
Yes, we all judge on first impressions. However, once you love someone, and I mean truly love them, they could wake up the next morning with 2 teeth and one arm and you would not only stay with them, but either help them adapt or get them help. You don't just say, "Well, in 2 years you may have a horrible accident and not look good, so see ya later."
2006-09-06 01:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jen B 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not offended that you don't like fat girls. We all have our preferences that we look for at first. What bothered me about your questions is that you already are dating a fat girl and have no regards to her feelings what so ever. If you don't like fat women then why did you ever go out with her in the first place? You have used her, gotten your needs met, played with her emotions, and then discarded her without a shred of regret. That is what is wrong with your questions.
2006-09-06 01:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not talking about first impressions .. you were talking about being in a commited relationship, and making sure that this person doesn't gain weight. Needless to say those are two different things
Mel
2006-09-06 01:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I agree to a certain extent... I think people should be able to control their eating habits generaly.. though some people think chuby is cute..or boney for that matter...
Everyone has preferences naturaly on first impressions.. it is best not to though, but our outward appearence natural does show some of our inward appearance, or something about us anyway...
Maybe a lot of people are offended because they think you care most about looks or they are fat themselves.
2006-09-06 01:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll not all women can be skinny...but you have to go with what you are attracted too..I am a women and I feel as if you should go with what you are attracted too...I have never dated a white guy. I prefer black men. That is what I am attracted too.. If you like skinny women...then do you.
2006-09-06 01:04:51 · answer #8 · answered by MAMA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a slim jim? hope you would never get fat when you get older.
if you are so much into woman's weight why bother with fat girls? get yourself a thin pin to show off
2006-09-06 01:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by purelle31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other womens's lives don't revolve around YOUR standards. How about you go out and purchase that new penis pump because I don't like guys with small *****!
2006-09-06 01:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋