I talked to my babyfather the other day and we trying to work things out but he told me that he was addicted to me and cant let me go Wjhat does he mean by that???
2006-09-05 17:47:03 · 31 answers · asked by cowanelmo 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he still has you in his power, something like that you melt over he tells you exactly what every person whats to hear "I cant let you" "I need you" whatever he did to you he knows he f*ucked up, and you will work things out with him and start to believe all over again and BAM he does it again.
Good Luck.
2006-09-05 18:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he's sick and pathetic, stay away from him. Why did you break up in the first place? An ex is an ex for a reason. Time has a way of letting you remember the good things and sweeping the bad under the carpet, but the bad is all still there right under the surface and once you spend some time together it will all come right back out. You WILL have the same problems you had before and do you really want to ride that ride again? Basically going back to an ex is like putting spoiled milk back in the fridge and thinking it will be better next week, the memory of the smell may fade some but as soon as you take it out and open it up the smell suddenly comes rushing back to you and you remember why you put it away in the first place. Better off just getting yourself some new, fresh milk!
2006-09-06 00:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I does not neccassarily mean he is a psycho. It just means he has fallen hopelessly in love with you and that your his drug of choice. The thought of being seperated from you would send him into utter sadness and despair. Now thats cold turkey. His plea of being addicted to you is probably the only way he could communicate the fact that you are very important to him. He also could have low Self-Esteem, possibly old seperation issues as a child. If I was you, I wouldnt listen to alot of these whacked out blogs. I would follow my heart and what you know about this guy, think it over real good and careful. Then go with your decision.
2006-09-06 01:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An addiction is something you are dependent on. Is hard to do without if the dependency becomes too large it can be harmful for either you or him. That does not mean that one day he puts a stop to the addiction it can happen. Some addictions can be controlled.
2006-09-06 01:01:52 · answer #4 · answered by humm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I went thru the same thing about 4 years ago with my girls daddy... We also tried to work things out but it just didn't.... He said he didn't want to loose me and that he was addicted to me, my love and all my ways!!! At the time I didn't pay much attention to that comment.. But I soon found out what he meant.... After a year apart I tried dating again and he made sure it didnt last long.... He made my life impossible for about a year....he was constantly calling me and coming over... So I had to make the dicision and move the heck far away from him....... We're kinda friends now for the sake of our child but we keep it 2000 miles away!!!
2006-09-06 00:55:47 · answer #5 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Obsessed" which is something other than "in love". I think that a person who is addicted to another person is unhealthy. It is almost as if you are a habit that he can't break. Love is something very different. Although, if he is your child's father then you should give the relationship a chance. Love is progressive, it develops over time. If he truly loves you he wants the very best for you and his child - and that sometimes means letting go!
2006-09-06 00:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing a bit about guys (being one last time I checked) and people in general, It sounds like more of a dependency issue than love, respect or admiration.
People get addicted to things because they NEED that person or thing for THEMSELVES. They make act in a way that appears to be love on the surface, but scratch that surface, and you will find a insecurity and a self serving motive.
Your situation is your own. Please exercise caution for your own sake and your child's
2006-09-06 00:56:45 · answer #7 · answered by electricpole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like right now he can not get enough of you right now .. just being around you at this moment.
Good luck on working things out with him .. hoping you both find everlasting love and happiness.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-06 00:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my ex told me that, I got beat up for trying to talk to another guy. He told me that we were together and we had a kid that meant I belong to him and only him. That no one could ever have me, because we were a family. And we would be together forever.Just becareful and good luck! To be on the safe side just kind of work it in to conversation and ask what he meant by it. Better safe then sorry.
2006-09-06 00:53:36 · answer #9 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever it means, it doesn't sound healthy! It kinda sounds like he's saying he's dependant on you... but people need to be able to stand on their own two feet. I would give serious thought to going back into this relationship if I were you. Do you want a needy, jealous guy as a role model for your child?
2006-09-06 00:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋