I'll try and make this as detailed and short as possible.
Ok in the beginning of our relationship things were great. Too me i even thought he was moving a little too fast he always wanted to be with me and would get mad if i would do other stuff he pretty much asked me to move in with him, always saying the sweetest stuff, but i liked it.
Now I that i think i'm ready for that commitment things are completely oppostie. He doesn't really want me around ever he treats me completely opposite. He's always on his computer..he yells and scolds me for the littlest things.. when we fight he says the meanest things and critizes me all the time. He's still the sweetest guy but i feel like our relationship has hit a slump and we've only been together for 8 months...
2006-09-05 17:30:31 · 17 answers · asked by anab113 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I love you Ann, I dont care what other people say about or relationship, I will always be there for you and always care about you and I do in present, past and future.
2006-09-06 20:13:20 · answer #1 · answered by unforgivenbagandtag 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some men are like little boys and when they get the toy they want, they lose interest. Now, I am guessing though that you have changed a bit since you are more comfortable now too.
When we kick back finally guys are not as impressed and most girls get mad about that, but the point is we get upset when they stop trying too. Right??!!
So, if there were little things you used to do and now don't and anything you can think of that you know he liked and you have got too laid back on than step it up a bit and hopefully see improvement.
Many people always want someone else to be how they were when they first met, but they don't take the responsibility to stay that way too.
Good Luck Hun.
PS. If you make an effort and also tell him what you are feeling about this whole situation. If he doesn't change than you are now seeing the real him.
2006-09-05 17:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by designsbyniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You contradicted yourself. You say he's the sweetest guy, but at the same time he says the meanest things. 8 Months? It ain't going to get any easier. It's one thing if you say mean things to him, and just does it back, and then you guys have make up sex, but it doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Talk it over with him, tell him you don't like the way he's treating, and if he doesn't change, dump him and move out. You deserve better.
2006-09-05 17:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Little Hulk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He's still the sweetest guy but i feel like our relationship has hit a slump and we've only been together for 8 months..."
-you
Sweetest Guy????
I hate to tell you this honey but, get out now! After 8 months it's usual to have a few tiffs, and maybe have each other's foibles crawling on your last nerve, but come on!
"If you feel like you're on a one way street...turn left at the next corner."
-me
2006-09-05 17:36:45 · answer #4 · answered by Chellebelle78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...guys are like that....when they get bored, they treat you bad. and its the opposite for gals. Gals only get more and more committed in a relationship. It doesn't mean that he doesnt love you at all. But he might love you less. He might not be going to break up with you. So, choose whether to suck it up or just get another one. Another one could be better or worse. If your still young, I suggest you to look for another one. I think all he does just shows that he doesn't love you enough.
2006-09-05 17:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart talk to him, and if he doesnt bother to listen then move out.
i understand that it wud difficult in ur part but u gotta B STRONGER.
maybe he has taken u 4 granted or may b its the case that its over 4 him, so whatever it is i think u shud b firm in ur stand.
u need to talk to him to get things straight, n if he says things or criticizes u then think about ur dignity n for ur dignity's sake say back somethin n do Move Out.
good luck.
2006-09-05 17:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds awefully familiar... same thing happened to me except after 2.5 years. I was the guy in the relationship acting the same way he was, sorry to say. anyway, definitely try to talk to him about it. if that doesn't work better move on, theres no point in being in a relationship that doesn't make you happy. but for my sake talk to him about it, my ex didn't and I lost a great girl...
2006-09-05 17:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by fleisch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's yelling at you and scolding you and criticizes you all the time...yet he is sweet?
That doesn't make sense to me.
Time to sit down with the man and have a heart to heart.
2006-09-05 17:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by netlocmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY SOUND LIKE THINGS ARE MOVING TO FAST, AND
MAY BE YOU BOTH NEED TO TAKE A STEP BACK AND SEE
WHERE THE REALTIONSHIP IS GOING, IT ONLY 8MONTHS
'AND YOU ARE ALREADY FIGHTING, DISRESPECT YOU.
THAT NOT GOOD. SO MAY BE YOU NEED TO JUST SLOW
DOWN AND SEE WHERE YOU NEED TO GO WITH THE
SITUATION.
2006-09-05 17:34:52 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out, take your space, and let him come to you. Act like you dont care. That always brings them back to your feet, kissing them, and begging for you back.
2006-09-05 17:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by Love Is Pain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋