well my b/f went to elements and i walked there and he comes out wit 2 of my friends, one on each arm, so i went to elements and i was talkin to this 1 guy and he was so sweet to me and now he likes and i kinda like him so should i dump my b/f and date this new guy or should i stay with my b/f???
2006-09-05 17:29:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheat on ur bf and go with the next man ive done that and it works because then your bf cums running back to you
2006-09-05 21:26:30 · answer #1 · answered by SenSored 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater. And can you say AIDS cheating can lead to many things much worse than hurt feelings now. I say wait a while before jumping back into the dating pool and make sure the next guys is respectful and faithful. And get an AIDS test from your partner and use condoms. Sorry for the speech but in my line of work I hear this story all too often and I know too many people who have had to suffer the long lasting consequences of infidelity Good luck.
2006-09-06 00:42:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the more mature one and leave him,giving your account of the situation,in a matter of fact way.Tell him you can no longer be with someone who is unfaithful to you and is so insensitive to your relationship. It is better to meet for lunch or be in some other public place for this conversation.No tears,OKAY? Then turn and walk away.Then start dating the other GENTLEMAN,but be aware,some people go through a honeymoon stage where they are one way then turn into a monster.But break up with the b/f first so he can't call you a HO,he may anyway but at least you will know the truth.
2006-09-06 00:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship you have with your boyfriend. If he appologises and you think he is being honest and you think it can last after then stay. If you think he's not worth the effort or this isn't the first time then I go and see if you have more luck with the new guy.
It's all down to your personal feelings in the end. In my situation I think if my partner cheated on me our relationship could survive as it might only be a one off, but if it happened again then it would be over.
2006-09-06 00:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_ghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In which ever way, try the art of patience. Dont hop into another s hands too quickly and dont jsut dump him too quickly. Pateince will help you make the best hop.
I bet you, which oever wayyou go, never going back to a cheating guy may alwas be the best. Keep keeping your eyes opooned girl.
Good luck.
2006-09-06 01:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"He WALKED OUT" with two girls??? Is that "cheating on you" these days? Things have changed a bit since my day.
Listen, he doesn't own you, and you don't own him. There is no reason why you should only have one boyfriend, nor yet, any reason why he should have only one girl friend!
So why don't you get friendly with the other guy AS WELL as your current friend?
2006-09-06 00:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by The Lone Gunman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend cheated on you, obviously he doesn't LOVE you. If he cheated with 2 of your friends then they are NOT your friends. Dump them all. None of them can be trusted.
2006-09-06 00:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Trixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask a question like that, you should stay single for a long time cause the answer is so obvious. It's right in front of your nose and you still can't see it.
2006-09-06 00:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to choose for your self. Have you asked your boyfriend if he has cheated or your friends. Maybe he was just been friendly
2006-09-06 04:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are partly about trust. You can trust him, so why bother investing anymore time in the guy. He obviously isn't bothered about you.
I wouldn't rush into another relationship too quickly. Give yourself sometime.
2006-09-06 03:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by trackie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋