Help me out please? im lost...?
yea so heres how it is... every summer i go to visit my cousin. this year i hooked up with her best friend. sure the sexual part of it was awesome...
but i had a really awesome time with her.. we chilled, and went to the movies and i really enjoyed spending time with her. now the problem is that my cousin lives 12 hours away. i only go visit my cousin for two weeks out of the year. i know this sounds really lame or whatever, and ill prolly get called a p*ssy for sayin this, but im havin a really hard time not being with her. we talk all the time on the phone, but i had such an amzing time with her, i cant stand not being with her... WTF do i do?
2006-09-05 17:13:48 · 10 answers · asked by togaparty456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 16, jnior in high school, i have two jobs and i drive.
2006-09-05 17:20:40 · update #1
Unless you are old enough to b able to move out there, there isn't really much you can do except just keep in touch through letters, phone, and internet. I don't think what u said is sappy either I think that is sweet of you. I wish you lots of luck!
2006-09-05 17:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well baby...I feel your pain. I really do. My boyfriend lived about 10 hours from me, and it was hard. We chatted online daily, and took turns calling a couple of times a week. And we visited when we could. The difference is, I am older than you. You're kind of stuck on your parents coattails financially. You'll just have to do the best you can, and if it's meant to be, it will be!
(Didn't I just answer this same question...?)
2006-09-06 13:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by persnickety1022 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r really sweet. Yeah, love hurts. Keep in touch. You might try to meet at a movie theater or any other place in between (she drives 6 hours and so do you) at least once a month. It might not e the same , probably because there will be your parents but at least you get to see each other a little more often.
Hope it helps;)
2006-09-05 17:28:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Do you have a job? DO you have money? I f you are 18, have skills that are in demand every where, or have a lot of money, then is very simple: move to the town where she lives, if you are under age, have no skills and no money, sorry, there is nothing to do but suffer.
2006-09-05 17:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by elcabula2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breathe, sometimes we all have to have patience for a reason, things may seem hard and impossible and you want them so bad, but here's where you stand, your life is not over, it is just begining, so enjoy the conversations and learn about what each other wants and needs, mostly be patient you will see her again and the reward for waiting will be so great.
2006-09-05 17:20:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
got e mail ?? talk, write...... that is about all you can do at this point unless you are willing to go for more visits...... I wish I could give you a magic answer...... but if you are still in school, there is not much you can do...... God bless
2006-09-05 17:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good that your talking to her on the phone builds up ur relationship. But I don't know what you should do... unless ur up to do something drastic... like go there often or move closer... other than that be patient.
2006-09-05 17:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Mariaish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez, thats hard to give advice to b/c ur 12 hrs away, u really cant do much w/ her and vice versa...u can keep contact by calling or get a web cam and u can see her...but i dont know what to say...
2006-09-05 17:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sweet.
There is always the phone and email.
2006-09-05 17:17:55 · answer #9 · answered by tina m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST CONTINUE WHAT YOU DOING, TALK ON THE PHONE
START EMAIL HER, TEXT HER ECT. AND WHEN YOU CAN
GO SEE HER THEN GO THERE . OTHER THEN THAT THERE
NOTHING MUCH YOU CAN DO.
2006-09-05 17:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋