What are your intentions with my daughter?
_________________________ ...really dont know what to say...please help!
2006-09-05 17:02:07 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
serious answers ony ...please!
2006-09-05 17:03:15 · update #1
Your daughter is such a great person that I cant help to want to get to know her better slowly. I have total respect for you, your wife and daughter and would not do anything to hurt her. Planning on going to college works also....
2006-09-05 17:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by chloemom925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL...very rarely do parents ever ask this question honey. But it was good of you to plan in advance. The best thing you can do, would be, to just be honest...and be yourself. Parents can see right through just about anything. If you lie, they'll think you are shady. If you answer comically, they'd be more willing to accept you knowing that this probably isn't serious enough for them to worry about. If you flat out tell them some bad intentions, you can expect an escort to the door.
We had one daughter and all her boyfriends had to come for a screening by my marine husband before they could take her out. He'd ask alot of questions, but never that one. And what I told you is exactly how we judged them. If they hesitate and can't make eye contact, they were out on their ear. If they played themselves up and danced around issues, they were out on their ear...but it they just acted normal and made a few jokes here and there, my husband would let down his guard.
Just be yourself and you'll do fine.
2006-09-06 00:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first meeting: Hold out your hand to the mom first, shake hands with both.
Hello, Mrs._________ it is a pleasure to meet you.
Mr. ____________, it is a pleasure to meet you also.
If the question of intent is brought up, be honest.... Since I do not know your age or the seriousness of your relationship it is hard to help. If you are "SERIOUS" about this girl, tell her parents. Tell them about your plans for the "near" future & the "distant" future.
If this is a new relationship... Tell them that. Explain that your intentions are to get to know their daughter, see if there are common interests & goals, etc. Either way, be open but try not to be too open JUST TO TRY TO PLEASE THEM. Be honest!!!
I do not know your age, but if you have college plans, tell them. If you are working or ??????
I guess I really can't answer this question, I have known my husband since I was 12, he was 18. I just always had a huge crush on him. I only remember telling his mom, "Thank You for raising your boy into the man I'm going to marry".
Good Luck!!! with this or whatever relationship you choose.
2006-09-06 00:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwww . . . just when I was going to give a smartass answer.
Okay, how's this:
Your asking what my intentions with your daughter are implies that it has crossed your mind that I may have some "intentions" with your daughter that are objectionable to you. Rest assured, I like your daughter very much and I would never, never do anything that would cause her, or you, any reason to worry. We are getting acquainted, that's all. Your daughter has some say in our relationship, and you know her better than I do, so I can only assume you trust her, and I hope that you will come to trust me.
2006-09-06 00:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me dude but here are 10 things NOT to say
10. "Sorry I'm a little late. I had to stop by the drugstore."
9. "Show me how you used to spank her."
8. "Please come inside? Wow, you sound just like your daughter."
7. "Do you think she would put out if I told her that I loved her?"
6. "I just got my license today."
5. "I believe being sexually active since I was 12 has helped me mature."
4. "Five bucks says she's a D-cup."
3. "Hey do you have an empty pop can and some matches?"
2. "Hi. I'm Robert, but my friends call me 'Back Door Bob.'"
1. "So, does your wife just lay there during sex too?
2006-09-06 00:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, We are going to dinner and a movie. We will be back at 11pm and I promise not to let anything happen to her., My intentions are to have a good time and talk and laugh and get to know each other. I respect your daughter and would not want to defile her so I will bring her back in the same condition I took her in.
2006-09-06 00:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by memorris900 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have intentions? What are they? Do you want to get to know her as a person, or do you just want sex? Do you like her? What attracted your attention? If you're honest with yourself and her, you can answer her father's questions. If you can't, you're not ready to date anybody's daughter. (I'm the father of five daughters, an adopted one, and a foster father of a son.) Get it together, be honest, you'll do fine.
2006-09-06 00:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask if they have any naked pictures of her.
Then tell her mom, "I see where she gets her looks, if you only knew what I'd like to do to you."
Smack her on the butt in front of her parents and say, "That's Grade A Meat"
Ask them how well they sleep at night and if they have an alarm system.
Before you leave ask her dad if he has a condom you can borrow.
Do all this and everything will be A. O. K.
2006-09-06 00:08:28 · answer #8 · answered by a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at the mothers butt and say damn gurl I know I made the right chioce. Yo mamma got a big ol bangin a$$. Yo name should be da A$$ family. Don't worry sir" I take of your daughter."
2006-09-06 00:08:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..... if you end a story with "... and I finally got the cops to let us off! Man that was a relief!" At some point you went way wrong.
But barring that just be yourself and be respectful. Do that and things should be fine.
2006-09-06 00:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by JFra472449 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋