I don't like to argue but I think you can express your feelings more if we both can't talk about it like adults. Somebody please tell me what to do?
2006-09-05 16:55:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you argue, it doesnt automatically mean you arent meant for eachother. try different ways of dealing with things and then see how you feel about your relationship. if you argue alot, there is a good chance both of you need to change your reaction to things. example....when you say something he doesnt like, and he gets mad. he should talk to you before arguing. perhaps you two arent seeing the other persons view and you both are stubborn. just try to talk to him first about how you want to change how things are and then think about what you want to say when you feel an argument arise. there are things to do rather than just give up on the relationship...GOOD LUCK!!
2006-09-05 16:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you argue about and how hard you've tried to fix it. In all relationships, each person has to adjust their personality/actions to suit the other. Sometimes, people dont realise this and just continue to disregard the other person's feelings.
I think, you should think about the arguments you've had and have a talk to your bf about it. Sometimes, when you are about to have a pointless argument...just think about if it's worth all the crap that comes afterwards. If it isn't worth it....swallow your pride and just let it go.
If the arguments are more serious in terms of upsetting each other e.g. by the way you treat other guys or the way he treats you...... these issues may be able to be fixed by actively trying...but if it all fails, it probably does mean you two are not made for each other.
2006-09-05 19:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by Faaaaabio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some might say that a little bit of arguing is good for a relationship, that it cleans out the closet. only a little though. the whole point of being with someone is that it should makes us feel happier then being alone. when we are no longer happy in a relationship with someone, it is not point staying around. you dont like to argue, and theres nothing wrong with that. maybe you two arent meant to be together. relationships shouldnt be difficult.
2006-09-05 17:00:36 · answer #3 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arguing is perfectly normal in any relationship. but there are rule to having a good heated discussion to where something good will come out of it. 1. don't bring up the past . 2. don't say you all the time like you never are on time but i am upset that you seem to be late a;ll the time . this way it doesn't come across as your yelling but yet your saying the same thing except your also letting him know that it bothers you with a softer tone. keep voices calm lots of things out there on the Internet about communicating sincerely bushjeff21@yahoo.com
2006-09-05 17:05:08 · answer #4 · answered by bushjeff21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he doesn't want to be with you anymore and he is trying to get you to break it off with him because he's not man enough to break up with you. And relationships are not good if your always arguing. You should be able to sit down and talk out your differences like adults and find a compromise.
2006-09-05 17:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by bucksolutions1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, couples have to argue from time to time. It helps them get to know eachother better. If its constant arguing over the same matter, than there is definetly an issue and this could lead to other problems.
Perhaps you should give us more details?
2006-09-05 16:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone argues in there relationship...it just happens...try talking to him about it...and if he still seems that way then maybe he is trying to break it off with you and that is the only excuse he can come up with. does he think that you are supposed to be like the beaver's and never ever argue cuz if so he needs to turn off the tv and get a reality check!!!!
2006-09-05 16:59:35 · answer #7 · answered by *His_Playgirl* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, if he is saying that its a sign your not made for each other, dump him before he finds someone better then dumps you! If he was really interested, he'd be helping you work things out, not bluntly saying things like not being made for each other, every couple argues. It's what makes us stronger
2006-09-05 17:04:32 · answer #8 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people argue in relationships and the ones that say they don't are lying.
2006-09-05 17:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by AusPixie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf and I always argue but we never thought that we'r not made for each other... arguing spice up the relationship.. and i think that it's normal...
2006-09-05 17:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by meklay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋