i feel i have nothing to live for...i have friends but not a best friends im not smart im not pretty and not athletic im not funny. i am too shy to attract any guy im not good at working so its obvious to me that my life is going to suck...so why go on living a shitty life? Why not end it now?
2006-09-05 16:52:33 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley010 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
this is not over a guy i have been thinking about this for over 2 months the only reason i really held on was thatm maybe this guy i love maybe he could love me back and save me but thats not going to happen...
2006-09-05 16:57:14 · update #1
Over a guy!!! come on be realistic, is he really that worth it.
2006-09-05 16:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That does suck, I think we have all been there, I know I have. He probably wasn't the right guy for you. Maybe you should really try to think of something that you like about yourself or something that you like to do and spend some time developing that. I am shy as well and really have to work at talking to people. Make an effort to talk to someone new everyday, even simple things like saying hello to someone will help. Do you have any brothers, sisters, cousins, etc that are close in age to you? Sometimes your family can be your best friends. My brother is one of my best friends. Have you thought about talking with a counselor? Sometimes it is helpful to talk to someone who doesn't judge you. Your life will only suck if you let it. Good things will happen in your future that will surprise you. Your life may not turn out to be what you expected it to be and you will always have setbacks, but at least you will have made progress in the right direction.
2006-09-05 17:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by lukafoo74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me - you'll get over this. I know it probably feels like the world is ending now, that you'll never be happy again - but that's not true.
I've felt like this many times - one of the worst pains in the world is a love that goes unrequited. I've felt EXACTLY the same way - not smart, not good looking, etc - but, you know what? I bet that's not true. I bet there are people who think the world of you.
You'll be fine - even if it doesn't feel like it now. find someone you can talk to - to vent to. Write, or draw something (art is where the soul breaths). Do whatever you can to take your mind off of this, and slowly the strength of it will go away.
Just don't do anything drastic. If you need someone to talk to, there are a lot of people on here who are willing to listen. Or you can IM me (chralex@msn.com - on msn messenger). But don't look for a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
2006-09-05 17:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I too have been in love. True, passionate, love. The man I was in love with cared "inordinately" about me and perhaps, loved me in his way. I, too, lost him. He and I were involved in an extreme lifestyle. My family didnt approve of it. Let alone the age difference between us and of him--what they knew of him which still is almost nothing.
When I lost him, I too felt as you did. Worse still. He and I wanted to be together; but couldnt. I too wondered about my future happiness; but . . . and here's the rub, even if everything had gone well between he and I, even if we had been able to stay with each other, would that have gauranteed me a happy life? The answer is no. It is possible that I could still have been miserable all my life. Life . . . future is uncertain / ungaurantee-able. Life is no fairy tale. You simply can not know what is waiting for you down the path of time. There may be something or someone you wont want to miss out on experiencing/ knowing. For me, I wanted to die too. I, however, was afraid of what devastation my death would cause to those I love that I would leave behind. So, I endured. I cried and missed him for over a year . . . all hours of the day and night. I dreamt of him, had some nightmare's too. Truthfully, I still miss him and think of him often. I will never know THAT kind of passion again. I will never know THAT kind of love again (I'm fortunate to have had the opportunity to have experienced such bliss, though, however brief it might have been). But . . . there was someone in my future that would make my life worth while . . . who'd give me reason for living . . . and restore my wilted heart : she'll be a year old this month. She's absolutely beautiful and entirely worth all my past. Now I no longer wait out the lifespan's of my family, to end my own pain by following them. Now I work each day to make her life all I can. Now I want to live forever, to look out for her, be there for her, see her become who she will. Hang in there, girl. The future may be uncertain, it may have its downs; . . . but it is never without its ups too . . . and some of those ups . . .well, they're up pretty high. : )
2006-09-05 17:18:48 · answer #4 · answered by tigerzntalons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt that way a couple of times and I'm 50 and still alive!!! It gets so much better....better than death - because WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE DIE>?????? NO one really knows. Life gets better. Be strong, change you attitude about yourself...THINK YOU'RE SMART, PRETTY, SWEET, FRIENDLY.....and you WILL BE!!!!! After I did that, I broke so many hearts because I hadn't yet found Mr. Right, until I was 24. TRUST ME HONEY! IT WORKS!!!!! TRY IT! Good luck and email me anytime. Kitty
2006-09-05 16:59:18 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone to talk to honey. Why not try the suicide hotline and they will talk to you and try and help you solve your problem.
You don't know what the future holds for you. You may be having a hard time right now but someday it will get better for you. Don't give up life is to precious to quit. God Bless You
2006-09-05 16:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE pretty
and you make me smile
I think you have attracted a bit of attention here on yahoo answers - you can find a guy easily.
You are right - you should not go on with a shitty life, but you can make life GREAT!
2006-09-05 17:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you just talked to him and u know for sure? u sure he isnt just scared to tell u how he feels? anyway! its never to bad to end it specially since u live here in USA its a hundred times worse other places and the people there dont kill themselves. So just knowur life is WAY better than some peoples and dont worry u will get a boyfriend better friends and u will grow into ur body and become beautiful one day! PLEASE dont give up...if u need help please send me a message britt12334@aol.com
2006-09-06 09:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by ohdarliingletgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. Hate to say this honey, but you are the only one that can save you. It's up to you and you alone. Sorry that's the way life is.
2006-09-05 17:12:17 · answer #9 · answered by bettyboop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chat with people out here we are all willing to talk to you,,
2006-09-09 13:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by jerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋