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Question

i'm almost 17, i've been with a boy for a little over 2 years (he's almost 19.). he is the son of my parents close friends. but im not allowed to date :(. when my parents found out i was with him, they put me in home school, where my time with him can be controlled and monitored. we have always been pretty crazy about each other. but after i left, i started hearing that he had been kind of seeing a couple other girls at school. but then he confessed it all to me, and now he acts all crazy about me again. but my trust in him isnt doing so hot. we find ways to see each other occasionally, and when we do everything seems perfect. but since we usually cant be together, i constantly worry about what he's doing and with whom. what do you think i should do?

Answer 1

Dear, I think that you should stop seeing him on the sly, first of all.....I had a friend who was 17 and her boyfriend was 19 and her parents sent him to JAIL for seeing her repeatedly when they asked him not to.......Sounds to me like you are seeing him more out of revenge for your parents saying not to than for real reasons.....If you have problems with trust, dear, there is usually a good reason for us women to feel the way we do about certain people.......Take care, honey, the right boy will come along......

Answer 2

A relationship is definitely built on trust, you need to trust one another before you should date.

As for your parents, whoa that is totally rough. You should probably talk to your parents, tell them you know they are friends with his parents and that they need to understand that you're a teenager too. You have your own rights, and you'd like to be respected to the point they can trust you with your own friends. Especially if you have a guy. Also you should kind of gently tell them that you can't ever grow up and have a guy if you're being forced to becoming shy to the point you can't even say hi without them breathing down your neck.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Well wait untill your trust in him grows. If it doesn't then move on. But keep your little spies at school ; ) so you will know when he's lying or telling the truth.

GOOD LUCK ♥ ♥ ♥

Answer 5

Sorry Panda, its hard to get that trust back once its lost..do what your head tells you too. If you feel your heart can be broken again, then its time to move on. Good luck!!

Answer 6

he is stringing you along. maybe he thinks he can do what he needs to do behind you rback and when you hit 18 you'll be ok to date and then he can come back to you because your a saftey net. try to see through it

Answer 7

If he cheats you worrying about it will not stop it from happening.Just believe in him until he gives you a reason not to.Hope it works out for you.

Answer 8

thats a tough one... if I were you i would try to figure out wich girls is he going out with and then have a serious talk with him to see if i could really trust him again.. if not i would leave him because its not worth it.

Answer 9

Get rid of him.