I was going out with this guy who was my double age, and I was scared that all he wants is to have sex with me so I thought of a plan that I am going to say no to him and see what happens When he started making sexual comments I turned him down badly and he ran away and never came back.Now I want to tell him that it was just a test and he didn't pass it but I am not sure if I am right or I shouldn't have done that. I am not sure if he really was a perv. or I scared him off. Will he get mad at me ????
2006-09-05 16:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be glad that you got rid of him...There is no reason for you to apologize since he is the one that acted badly.
2006-09-05 16:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am an older guy 38 i look alot younger soi have girls all the way from 17 to 45 hitting on me. I beleive inlove where age isnt a big deal. you did the right thing. Ifthats all he wanted was sex then your better off with out him . if he does who cares because he inmature if if it was just about sex then hes a perve,. sincerly bushjeff21@yahoo.com
2006-09-05 16:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by bushjeff21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you learned that he was mostly interested in sex. Now that you have the piece of information, why bother with him?
You scared him away because you establish bounderies. He saw that he couldn't control you or you wuold make sex difficult, so he moved on. He isn't mad, just disappointed that he couldn't use you.
2006-09-05 16:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he ran away because you told him no your better off without him you need to find someone that will wait until your ready.... i went out wit my fiance for 4 years before we had sex and it just made it that more special.... so be glad hes gone and fine someone that much better
2006-09-05 16:29:44 · answer #4 · answered by titansmavericks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be glad that he ran away, now find someone that has something in comon with you . that doesn't mean sex. it sounds like you are too young to handle the
emotions that come with sex anyway.
2006-09-05 16:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by jamesd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was twice your age he was a perv and only wanted you for sex good choice girl
2006-09-05 16:36:38 · answer #6 · answered by elmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing dont question yourself on it if he wanted a relationship he would have stayed with you but it seems he only wanted one thing
2006-09-05 16:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by colvin0594 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had a dollar for every relationship women ruin with their stupid tests.
2006-09-05 16:27:52 · answer #8 · answered by Phil S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you were right.. he did just wnat to have sex with you... hope you feel better about it I'm sure he does...
2006-09-05 16:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he will and then he'll think that you want him back and he will com even stronger. get rid of him
2006-09-05 16:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by AtreyuExs&Ohs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋