2006-09-05 15:56:09 · 64 answers · asked by ShoeGal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you on crack? YES it's wrong!
2006-09-05 15:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by free2b 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Even asking the question proves you know it is wrong! Someone other then you has made a deep promise and commitment with this person, and not only do they deal with the good they have to deal with the bad, they have a history and a connection with that person. Why do you think that you only deserve half or a portion of someone instead of the whole conection of a man, like the married one gives his wife. What smart woman wants to be with a man who is such a scum bag that he cannot either keep the commitment to the person he is with or be brave enough for a divorce or counseling. Believe me there is no such thing as the other woman, there is however other WOMEN, you will never be the only one don't think that you are that special, you are an outlet to a lot of problems. How would you feel if that was your husband, or your sisters husband or your father with that other woman?
2006-09-05 16:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by can j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask you this. Is you husband dating another women right now?? Then Yes it is fine because then your both sick. If you are single messing around with a married man, well then you are nothing but trouble. He's also a pig for dating you as well. Got another idea, why don't you just come clean and tell his wife now and have him file for a divorce. That way he can marry you and start cheating on you when you get old in bed. Remember once a cheater always a cheater, what makes you think this guy cares for you at all right now except for the fact your someone to get in the sack. People like you make me sick. I seen to many marriages ruined by people like you. I hope you get everthing you deserve.
2006-09-05 16:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by Mark67 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it isn't wrong it is definitely stupid.
A married guy has some feelings for his wife no matter what he tells you. They've been through much more together and even if they end up divorcing there will be part of him always hung up on the whole thing. Married guys are normally trying to replace or fix there wife through another relationship. That doesn't work and puts unrealistic expectations on you. Finally guys you meet in context with him will basically treat you like a tramp and often try to use you.
This is totally disregarding the damage it does to him and his wife. If you tank the marriage, you'll end up with a miserable boyfriend and an angry ex harrassing you. Everyone will end up with a ton of regret.
Yes it is wrong, but it is also risky, dumb and cruel.
2006-09-05 16:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by GreenManorite 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes!
You will always be "the other woman" or the "home-wrecker". He is obviously a very selfish person - to lead you on.
Every married man who cheats on his wife has a sob story, don't believe it. If it was really that bad at home he would have filed for divorce before approaching you.
Dating a married man is a dead end street. If he has money and you think he will leave his wife for you, you are mistaken. If he has children... shame on you for allowing this to continue.
Even if he eventually does leave his wife, what makes you think you are not dispensable? Men that cheat on their wives, eventually cheat on their girlfriends too. You are not the exception.
Walk away fast.... no run, and don't look back. There are plenty of single men out there.
2006-09-05 16:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by ccarter313 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, not really wrong for you to date a married man, it is just really DUMB. What is really wrong, is for the married man to date you...wrong on his part. Why would a girl even want to date a guy who is married, it only shows that he can't give/honor a commitment. I will never understand that. I suppose he is going to change for you?
2006-09-05 15:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Ed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For your sake, yes, it is VERY WRONG to date a married man. If he has the audacity to toss his marital vows and respect for his wife (and kids if there are any), he's bound to do the same to someone else like yourself. Remember the old saying, ' Old habits die hard' ? Is that someone you would hold in high regards? He may or may not be manipulating you into believing HE is the victim of a marriage gone sour to gain your sympathy and compassion. Protect your heart and integrity from being compromised and leave him be.
2006-09-05 16:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by Suz E. Home BAKER 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes its really bad to date a married man.U need to show respect to his wife.If he dosen't want to be with his wife he shouldn't took that big step.When a man is married u is going to think that he only loves u but,think about it dowe he goes home to her every night.He don't only tells u that he loves u but he tells her that also especially every night.So think about it.He might got kids and love them.So u shouldn't date a married man cause,he could be having sex with u and her.It would be possible that when he leaves home he is a new man but when he's there he's in her hands.If u date a married man that tells u that he still loves his wife no matter what.So think about it very closely.When he leaves his wife than maybe y'all can talk.
2006-09-05 16:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Meah 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
:Yes it is, he probley has a loving wife at home and kids, I mean come on how would you feel if it was you. Put yourself in that place and think about it because are you willing to loose yourself repect, if he is married and is messing with you how many more women is he messing with, because if he does it to his wife he will do the same to you. Those type of men are dogs, it is just as wrong for a married woman to seeing a single guy as well, I mean no one stops to think about the kids or what kind of deases he or she will bring home to their mate. I mean I hope you would have better morals than that. and think about the kids or his wife.
I mean come on he will only tell you what you want to here, but then when it is all over with 99.% of them will stay with their spouse.
2006-09-05 16:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by barbara g 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is wrong. First of all he is cheating on his wife and if he cheats on her he will cheat on you guaranteed. You should tell his wife what he is up to if you want to be doing the right thing. Tell her he is cheating on her because he came onto you. And if you don't know her I'm sure someone around your work knows her. Cheating can be a hug, touching when your with someone else, intercourse, holding hands with someone other than who your with, having dinner with someone other than who your with. Even flirting with someone is cheating because the thought is there of cheating on who your with. You should even be ashamed of yourself for even thinking of dating someone that is married. So do the right thing tell his wife. She should know about it and you might even find a new friend that will think of you dearly for being honest with her. Another thing to ask yourself if you were married how would you feel if your spouse was cheating on you and no one told you and then one day you saw him and her in bed together or out to dinner together. But then someone comes up to you and says that your spouse has been cheating on you for ever how long. You'd probably be crushed because no one told you from the start.
2006-09-05 16:20:31 · answer #10 · answered by bucksolutions1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
YEEEEESSSSSS. In case you didn't catch the answer, it's "yes."
I don't care what he says to you about how his wife is supposedly not taking care of him or he's all lonely and sad. Maybe there's a reason!
Dating him is like telling all men and women that it's okay to disrespect marriage vows, family units, sanctity of love--all that and more.
Would you want to be the wife he was cheating on? Probably not.
You'll find someone better.
2006-09-05 16:01:31 · answer #11 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋