I am a bigger girl and I am looking for a nice man and it's hard to find someone who will accept me for who I am Do people really think that it's easy to loose weight because it's not easy and it's not motivating doing it with out someone to be there to love and support you through out the time you need this.
2006-09-05 15:55:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are so beautiful and don't let anybody tell you any different, its about being comfortable in your skin and confident about yourself that's what turns guys on and if their uncomfortable about your weight then they don't deserve you. you are perfect the way god made you and believe it or not he has made someone out there perfect for you but sometimes we have to be pricked by a couple of thorns to find that perfect rose.
god always blesses
take care
2006-09-05 17:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by kandykane95828 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is because you live in America. In many places in the world a voluptuous woman is desired. The older you get the less it matters. I know this sucks if your younger and dealing with Peer pressures but it is the truth.
As far as losing weight walk - just walk a little a day. Start with short distances and increase as gradually as you can. It is true that you can't eat fast food and do nothing and expect to loose weight however if you look at the calories you should take in 1200 a day. Eat something within twenty minutes of waking up and eat something every two hours. I would be willing to explain more.... No It is not easy but it can be done.
Some people that respond with put the burrito down have no idea what it like and there only good for a quickie like a stress release so forget em stupidity breeds stupidity
2006-09-05 23:15:11 · answer #2 · answered by micheal777 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The attraction to skinny women is a society thing. Skinny women are in the media, the tv, they are everywhere in America. In other countries, the people think you're starving if you go there skinny. I'm sure there is a man out there for you. If you want to lose weight, I would suggest the weight watchers plans. Meals like "SmartOnes", "Lean Cuisine", and "Healthy Choice". These meals all have point values on them for the weight watchers diets. If you really want to lose weight, first you have to be self motivated. In reguard to your question though, I'm sure you will find someone that is right for you.
2006-09-06 00:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men do not all want skinny girls, but they do want someone who takes care of themselves, and cares about their body. Yu should be able to loose wieght on your own without the help of another person, it shows that you care for yourself which is the most important part in a relationship (making sure you love yourself first) You will be suprised to find that when yuo start turnig a new leaf in life you meet new people, and enjoy new things, you never know your dream man could be at the gym, or in an aerobics class.
2006-09-05 23:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by can j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men want skinny girls because that is all they see on tv, in magazines, on billboards, they are surrounded by skinny women trying to sell them something! I am a bigger woman and I agree with you! I don't call myself fat! I call myself a jolly German! It is hard to be a farm-girl with out being chunky! My husband loves me and I was chunky when we met! granted I am a little chunkier now that I am a mommy of 2 and 7 1/2 months pregnant, but there is a man out there you will and can love you, all of you! Just keep looking!
2006-09-05 23:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by ladydragondale 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hello i love my dog,
Guys like thinner girls for the same reason that girls like guys who are thinner and more muscular. If you want to attract a guy, you are going to have to change the way that you look. Apparently the way you look now doesn't work, does it?
Believe me, I know how hard it is to lose weight, but you can do it, honey. Fat, doesn't have to be the way that you are that people just have to learn to accept.
Best of luck to you, and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-09-05 23:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may appear to you that all men are attracted to skinny/thin women, but that isn't the case. There are tons of men out there who find thicker, bigger women more attractive. Just remember to portray a positive self-confidence attitude, that tends to bring out the "inner beauty" which will be visible to all.
2006-09-05 23:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by KG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am frustrated too because of what the average guy deems beautiful. But I think that we must remember two things. 1) We need to love and support our own goals to look attractive, eat well and exercise and love ourselves and; 2) It is not every man I seek... just one... whose perception of beauty is keen and developed.... Hey if they can be fussy about what we look like, we can be fussy and refuse superficial standards!
2006-09-05 23:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are guys who fall for personalities. When the time is right, the right one will come and he can't be more perfect enough for you than anyone.
2006-09-05 23:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to bbw.com . That's Big, Beautiful,Women. There are guys out there that love big girls!
2006-09-05 23:01:53 · answer #10 · answered by whataboutme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋