ME N MY EX BOYFRIEND GOT TOGETHER THE END OF FRESHMAN YEAR. WE BROKE UP END OF SOPHOMORE YEAR.. WE HOOKED BACK UP..HE WAS MY FIRST AND I WAS HIS FIRST. WERE TALKING AGAIN.BUT HE FOUND OUT THAT WHILE WE BROKE UP I WAS TALKING TO ANOTHER GUY AND WE MESSED AROUND.BUT WE DIDNT HAVE SEX..WE JUST KISSED BUT WE ALMOST HAD SEX BUT I DIDNT WANT TO .CUZ I WANTED MY EX BOYFRIEND TO BE MY FIRST AND ONLY.BUT I EX BOYFRIEND NOW DOESNT TRUST ME. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. HE MEANS EVERYTHING TO ME. AND WERE STILL TALKING NOW.BUT HOW DO I EARN HIS TRUST BACK.THATS THE ONLY THINGS THATS HOLDING US BACK FROM GETTING BACK WITH EACH OTHER.I NEED HELP..I NEED ADVICE
2006-09-05 15:35:23 · 8 answers · asked by <3RomanticChick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-05 15:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by billm_07456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there us guys are crazy jealous. I don't think you guys should stop talking because that will be bad without communication its easier to forget people. And if you guys were broken up he should be less jealous but what I think it is is that he feels like you guys broke up and you just went with some other guy. Try explaining to him you may have thought thats what you wanted and it wasn't and that your ex was the reason why you're not with that other guy anymore and why you didn't have sex. Other than that I theres not much you can do because people forget how they feel because they are overrun with their jealousy.
2006-09-05 22:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by Cursive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't together so he has no right to be mad about. He is being childish and you can do better. You don't need to earn his trust, he needs to respect you and treat you decent.
How do you know he didn't have sex with someone else while you were broken up?
2006-09-05 22:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take an good advice from me now: sometimes in dating a
guy is very risky also doing an retake dont repeat that never because the reason alot harder than usal if it happends again
break off okay?
2006-09-05 22:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there.
ur situation kinda remind me of myself. i was in the same situation about 2 years ago. only difference is he knows i was talking and messing around with another guy but he didnt mention it.
i know he already lost his trust in me. but i really2 wanted him to be mine again. i thought of letting him go. as in forget him. but something told me not to.
wat i did was i just told him the truth about wat happen between me n that other guy. coz i really didnt do anything much with that guy just make out with him. that's all.
it's hard for a person to earn someone's trust again. but he shld learn to forgive n forget. if u really love that someone, u have to give them another chance.
wat u shld do is to try n explain to him. anyway, u both already broke up when u messed around with another guy. maybe tell him u felt lonely at that time. it's just a bouncing back thingy. it didnt mean anything at all.
watever reason u give him, it's up to him to give u another chance to be trusted again.
so, good luck girl!
2006-09-05 22:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not do anything ,why do you feel that you need to earn his trust.maybe he is the one that need to earn your trust
2006-09-05 22:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show sincerity... love and care.
2006-09-05 22:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP YELLING AT ME!
2006-09-05 22:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋