okay my effing father is such a creap and is dating a 19 yr old! my sisters 22! = ( my brother (15) and i have banned against her but my dad doesnt seem to get the fact tht we dont like the situation...we tried hinting...he didnt get it....we tried telling off the *****....my father didnt get it....we even told him we dont like it but he's not doing anything about it.....what should i say to him?
2006-09-05 15:18:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think let him be....Even thou it may not be 'right' for him to date a 19yo, but again will you mind if he controlling who you seeing. Respect his decision and he will respect yours. Also i guess he not tat young either, so who will accompany him to his last days then,you or your sis?If they love each other so be it
2006-09-05 15:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by alan99678 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's a horrible situation for sure! I would never date someone that close to my childrens age.
However, you can't choose for your father who he can or cannot date. When you are grown you will choose whoever you want to date no matter what your father says.
You may not like the girl he has chosen and that is perfectly understandable and you don't have to like her or spend time with her. On the other hand you should not act like a spoiled rotten brat and treat her with disrespect either. Just keep some distance between you both and I think you will find that your father will get bored with her very soon.
2006-09-05 15:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good going Daddy-o, ALRIGHT!!! Here's a thought, Maybe you should just be happy for your old man he works hard to keep you and yours in jeans. If he has found someone that brings him happiness instead of breaking his balls BE GLAD!! Stop thinking about yourselves ONLY and think about his happiness. Give him a break!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! For all the fools saying Call the Police, nineteen is legal in all fifty states! The Police are just going to laugh.
2006-09-05 15:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out if shes still living at home or not and if she is call her parents up and tell them how much you and your bro are up set about this.
keep talking to your dad about it. tell him the both of you are uncomfortable with his dating interest. tell him you dont mind if he dates but hes dateing someone who could be your sister! no more hints, flat out tell him. tell him that if this ever gets out at school it will totally distroy you and your bro. threating to move in with another relative to. maybe that will make him understand your serious.
i dont know the situation but you might want to tell you mother about it too. that is if you can or want to.
thats just so distrubing to me.
you and your bro could try making her life miserable when shes over too.
gosh, take care and best of blessings.
2006-09-05 15:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by lusciousevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what should you say to him? well, maybe start with something like " Hi Dad Love you. Hope you are enjoying your life - especially that hot chick you are dating" You have already told him what you think and he isn't listening so carry on and let him live his life as he sees fit. Look after your own problems instead.
2006-09-05 15:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone... it's probably not a love connection anyway. he just needs to know he still has it and ffrom the sounds of things, I think he does...
I too date a 19 yr old... and it's not for her mind.
2006-09-05 15:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i imagine ur father is lonely and he desires something new in his life it really is why he's prob. doin this what u opt to do is arise the front and tell him precisely how u sense, you could also initiate filling his life with something exciting in view that u were close earlier you should understand what pastimes him jus help him out....
2016-10-15 23:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by dudderar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start with "ghost dog " answer was retarded 19 is legal
in all states, this is a passing thing she is prob. using him.
start dating a older guy that shouls wake him up.
2006-09-05 15:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit and talk 2 ur dad.
got a good one...try 2 scar her by sayin really bad and mean stuff bout ur dad 2 the girl.lolz
2006-09-05 15:25:21 · answer #9 · answered by steff m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the police, that is if they don't already know, dad sounds like a pedifile.
2006-09-05 15:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by whodad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋