2006-09-05 15:10:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait and let it play out. See where it turns to. Don't tell him anything. And make sure you save a hardcopy of the log. If he's going to cheat on you, you want to know about it. If it turns out it's innocent, then you don't have to say anything, but chances are it's not. Don't play your cards just yet.
2006-09-05 15:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to resort to tricking your boyfriend to test his fidelity then something was already broken. I suggest you move on to someone you don't have to put to trial.
EDIT: I guess my post was in haste. In the case you did not already have major trust issues I would say in part it depends on the reply. Sometimes people are curious and like to flirt with danger but would not actually carry their actions out all the way.
It however is still a violation of your relationship agreement and needs serious attention. Unless you want to see just how far your boyfriend would really go I suggest you comfront him and or dump him if you feel his behavior will not change.
Best of wishes whatever you decide.
2006-09-05 15:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good job. Your meddling and testing of your man has ended your relationship. Break up with him, because now that you tested him and he failed, you'll never trust him again. Even though he was probably just flirting with her, you'll always wonder. A tip to girls AND guys, head games a recipe for disaster. Trust your g/bfs, testing them like this hurts you way more than them. These things can build trust issues, stuff than can really mess you up. I had a conflict with a close family member, so once over the phone, I asked her a question that I already knew the answer to, to see if would lie to me. She did, and I've completely withdrawn from my immediate family since then directly because of it.
If you don't want to break up with him, confess to your boyfriend, you did this to him, not him to you. Apologize for being childish and ask him to help you get over it. Even if he breaks up with you over it (and he really might) at least you will get it off of your chest. You're gonna feel bad a bout this for a while either way. This is the best thing you can do, try to fix it by being honest, he also might become more attached to you as a result of your honesty and a heartfelt apology. There are few things that can really label a "keeper" like the ability to admit to being wrong with out being caught in the act.
2006-09-05 15:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by valoriousblue777 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what wrong with your ex probably jealosu of you and your boyfriend why is you dealing with your ex you know he is out to cause trouble so follow your heart and what done in the dark will come to the light good luck
2006-09-05 15:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is your ex messin with your b friend???
he just wants to get with you dont trust him
a guy with a broken heart will do anything
2006-09-05 15:16:43 · answer #5 · answered by Richie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you would be doing what he wants geting ito your head just ignor him he is looking for a reactio form you, dont bother move on hes old news and your moved on to biger and better.
2006-09-05 15:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋