How long is too long to wait for a guy's phonecall? I was talking to a guy almost everyday if not every other. Now the phone calls are getting further and further apart ( like days). He will always talk to me if I call and he will ALWAYS call me back (within 30m) if he missed my call. Am I losing him? Have I already lost him? or Am I worrying for nothing?
2006-09-05 14:32:06 · 10 answers · asked by Ree 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may be the type of guy who likes it when you call him. Call him and ask him if he's not interested in you. He may be shocked that you asked. Ask him also why he hardly calls anymore, he may be thinking that he was calling to much, you never know, that's why you need to communicate more and not suspect.
2006-09-05 14:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same situation. I've been trying to keep in touch with him all summer but not allowing him to be my only interest (i.e. I still date others). For a while I thought it was just because he's busy with things (he's about to graduate from college). But after the busy period ended, he didn't call me as much as I called him. Someone told me that the more effort you put into relationships, the more it's worth in the end. So keep calling him, let him know you're around/interested. If anything else, you've gained a close friend. Good luck girl, hope it all works out for the best!
2006-09-05 21:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say NOT to wait for his call.It makes you look desperate. If he calls you call him back. But always waiting for his call can get lonely and quite boring. Plus it is not healthy to just wait on one person UNLESS you're in a committed relationship.
2006-09-05 21:39:13 · answer #3 · answered by poogie2373 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its meant to be then it will if its not then all your worrying will most definatly chase me and anyother guy away. be cool and relax. give it a little time because you may be crowding him out sort of like a fatal attraction. you sound anxious which is ok he must really be a cool cat, just be patient sweetheart and let things happen naturally. good luck
2006-09-05 21:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by hennesseywalton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER wait for a guy's phone call.
2006-09-05 21:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is tired of talking on the phone ask him out
2006-09-05 21:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by michelle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maximum 2 weeks.
He is simply dont care about u.
Move on.
2006-09-05 21:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'd say you've been replaced..... and he doesn't know how to tell you so he remains polite and seemingly interested.. I would bet it's time to look elsewhere.
2006-09-05 21:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to keep your self busy.
2006-09-05 21:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he is useing you . he is a player. find someone else.
2006-09-05 21:35:55 · answer #10 · answered by Rude dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋