I am going on my "First Actual Date" this saturday at the movies, and i am kind of worrying because usually the movies is a place where dates "make out" but im a little afraid. My date Christina is really hot and I am wondering if there are signs that she may give to show me that she wants to kiss me? Please tell me some signs that she may give off!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 14:12:07 · 16 answers · asked by kingofsamhain 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay for starters not all first dates have a make out part but it usually is the girl who will start to give u vibes of wanting a kiss but if u're not sure dont do anything cuz if she's nervious then she could send some mixed feelings and signs and that could ruine the whole night and second of all u've got to be a gentalmen and be urself and dont worry to much cuz she might feel like somethings wrong and keep getting nervious if she is. but if u see her moving closer to u or if u two r in the movies and u sit at the vary top in the corner where the armrest goes up and she leans up against u and she looks up at u look deep into her eyes (not like if ur staring but as if u were trying to find the path to her heart) and move a little closer to her and if she dosent pull away move closer and then slowly kiss her (girls dont like it when its too fast they want it to be romantic) and dont go staright into a french kiss just a kiss on the lips and then stop if she liked it she'll want to make out with u and if she dosent then dont push ur luck she probably just a little nervious and wants to get all the butterflies out of her stomach. hope that helps. have a nice time and good luck to ya.
2006-09-05 14:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you've made an error having your first date at the movies.
What you should've done (and you may still be able to do) is take her somewhere where you will be interacting with her in a more physical way. Dancing, bowling, playing pool...etc.
Now if you can't change the place for your first date, wait until you're done watching movies and take a walk in the park or beach whatever is closer. When you're with her, make eye contact with her a lot, and talk a lot about her, don't talk about yourself. If she wants to make out with you, she'll slowly pull in.
2006-09-05 21:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by zebo007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT 'make out' in the movies !
YOU may think it is old fashioned, but show her what a gentlemen you can be . Hold her hand in the movie and that is IT.
when you take her back home, ask her if you can give her a kiss good nite.
This will make it a nite for both of you to remember, NOT making out in the movies.....
2006-09-05 21:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, congratulations!!
a couple of starter tips:
she will grab your hand, dont be afraid to grab back
she will rest her head on your shoulder
a couple of times durring the movie, if she lifts her head up to look at you, and you look down at her at the same time, just lean in and gently press your lips to hers. just a warning, you may miss, but dont be embarressed, just try again.
altho, if it is her first date too, then there may not even be any kissing.
and when your going to drop her off or your saying goodbye or whatever and she gives you a hug, hug back and dont let her go until she absolutly insists.
also, here is a great website all about kissing, and how to do it "properly"
http://www.links2love.com/teens_kissing.htm
the best of luck to ya!
2006-09-05 21:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not easy to tell what the right signs are.i know that there are some who would tell you otherwise.your first date is special u have to know that Christina is as nervous as you are.be respectful to her, make her feel at ease.open her doors for her and ask her permission to hold her hand.try to make her laugh every chance you get.at the end of the day if you have done all this you will be assured of a second date..........
2006-09-05 21:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. If your GF wants to kiss you, and you feel it's right go ahead. If you are unsure then talk to her about it she'll understand everything. If she has a problem with you saying that, then she isn't for you.
2006-09-05 21:16:05 · answer #6 · answered by Kayley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt worry about the kiss and enjoy your night with her, as you leave and take her home then thats when you might get a kiss.
2006-09-05 21:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason you have to "make out" on your first date. Relax. Be yourself. Let her be herself. If you are both as young as you sound, then she'll be nervous too. Don't push anything. There is nothing to prove.
2006-09-05 21:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
m going to tell you.if she is not watching the show.them she is waiting for you to make a move.have her wear a skirt and no panties,if she is wanting you you will see it by the way she sits.if her legs are close,leave her alone .if her legs are open,she is inviting you in.
2006-09-05 21:17:57 · answer #9 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will get real close to you and start snuggling turn your head when you make contact lean forward and kiss her if she does the some thing your in the Clarie
2006-09-05 21:17:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋