And when its over why do they act like it doesn't even bother or matter to them? I just got done sooo worng by this guy, we didn't have sex or any thing big but he just said it's not you it's me. And his mom said that he needs to straighten things out with himself. But he acts like it doesn't matter that the relationship is over... Why? Please help
2006-09-05 13:52:11 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But why would he do that? And don'r but get over it or don'r care cuz your really not helpin'.
2006-09-05 13:55:19 · update #1
Babygirl, don't get down on yourself. Its all part of the growing and maturing. You said it yourself he is "acting like it doesn't matter." Guys for some reason are very good at hiding their emotions, we just have to learn how to play the game.
2006-09-05 13:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by Monie D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, very simple. He doesn't loves you.
Also I notice that you don't have a lot of selfesteem.
You called him a jerk yourself, why than do you persist in staying in a relationship with him.
You want something that will sure make him mad and come after you again???
Do the same as he'd doing right now to you..
Act like it doesn't matter at all that he broke up with you.
Be a woman, not a girl !!!
Go out for some new nice clothes, do your hair, nails, make yourself look 10 times better and sexier than before.
Feel better about yourself, don't fake this!! Feel really better about yourself.
Arm yourself with a beautifull, irresistable smile .
Works ALL the time..!!
He will .....notice you for sure and will be after you again..( happens all the time )
Here is where you will tell him, that he should have liked you the way you were before, that he had the chance, but he blew it.
Don't take him back. ...............!!!!!!!!!
That will be a misstake for sure.
Move on and look for someone who really loves and appre
ciates you.
Someone who is daydreaming about you . Someone in Love.
A real nice guy. You deserve this, sweetie..
You may thank me by choosing me as " Best Answer"..
2006-09-05 14:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dogla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is your answer. You take a gamble every time you enter a new relationship. There are no guarantees that it'll work out. It's something we've all been through at least once. Next time around it may be you that wants out, for what ever reason.
I don't mean to sound insensitive to your problem, I know it hurts and I do feel sorry for you. I know it'll be alright ain't work'in right now so I'll spare you. I will just say get through it the best you can. Tomorrows another day and you never know who might come along and surprise you.
2006-09-05 14:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by noname 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off, not all guys are jerks.
Secondly, if you keep getting stuck with jerks, maybe you're attracted to jerks. What is it about you that you like being treated like dirt?
Try looking in the mirror to solve your problems. Take responsibility for your role in this little play. You want a better class of man, then go out with a better class of man.
2006-09-05 13:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously too young to have gotten involved with you. Nobody knows what they are getting into half the time and then oops...they made a mistake and want out. He's right it's not you, it's him. So you should be grateful you didn't do anything with him or you would be feeling even worse. You'll run into many, many more guys like him in your lifetime hon I'll guarantee it! Don't go giving your heart away so quickly.
2006-09-05 13:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because females let them, allow them to have power over us ( I'm female and still learning not to let guys swing me around), Pick yourself up, you are somebody important, work on your self esteem and no matter what has happened --- move on! There are millions of men /guys out there.
2006-09-05 14:04:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is playing the field and has not found someone he really likes yet. Don't take it personally. The right one will come along and you will be happy you didn't settle for less than you deserve.
2006-09-05 13:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to be more selective. There were probably signs that he was an insesative prick but you chose to get attached anywayz....So now all you can do is move on...there is no answer to your question "why" that will make it better. You feel bad now, but it will be better- promise. Chop it up to a learning experience and move on....
2006-09-05 13:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with you.Don't be offended. Some guys are really dumb and have no idea that they're causing someone else pain.Whatever problem he's having is his problem,not yours. I wish more women would get that!
2006-09-05 13:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Yahooanswerssux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are more sentimental and easy to reach, soft in places unseen and very warm.
Men will ravish it until he finds somethging unfavorable and then leave it be no matter how romantic it may have been.
2006-09-05 13:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋