i have been with my man now for commin up on near 10 years and we would speek on yahoo mess and would have the same circle of friends and my question is i read a message with my partner sayin 2 a femal that he wanted 2 *** all over her!!!!!!!!! and i am at the min goin mad and he said it was only a joke which i feel it is not and i want 2 know am i over reacting???????
2006-09-05 13:48:51 · 38 answers · asked by lurganrabbit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO, you are NOT over reacting, thats NOT a joke, & if YOU had put something like that & sent it to a male friend, would HE take it as a joke, i think NOT, BUT he must of been thinking something to send a message like that,
2006-09-05 13:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little. It probably was only a joke as he neither knows who or where she lives. It`d be a different matter entirely if he was seen actually doing it to the girl he answered the question to so don`t be mad, turn it in to a joke at his expense and get on with things.
2006-09-05 18:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are having a trust issue right now has he ever told any one this before or is this something new also he may be telling you the truth it could of a been a joke or just horney at the time you need to read what was said before he told her that if it was sexual then i would worry but not a lot cause it is over the net and not someone who you are close to and live close to so he could then follow threw if they are close to you neighbor hood then i would worry but if not don't worry he was probably just horney and wanted to see what kind of response he would get good luck and keep trusting him if he says it was a joke then belive him unless he gives you reason not to trust him good luck
2006-09-05 13:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all about context, is he very flirty normally? How well do they know each other? Has he ever cheated before? etc.. I know I'm v flirty with my friends and do say to them that I want a threesome etc, but they know that I'm only joking and that i dont really mean it. But I wouldn't say it to someone I didnt know. It has got me in bother before with g/fs but when they see that I'm like that with most people I know they realise its just my personality. If thats the case you can still get mad as it wont be the first time.
I guess it just depends how much you trust him
2006-09-05 15:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Freaky, Hmmmm! But if u'r together now for 10 years without any problems then he probably is just joking, cut him some slacks but watch his ***!
2006-09-05 13:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by babybounce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's telling someone else he wants to *** all over her? Some joke.
If you're in a committed relationship, talking about having sex with someone else isn't a joke - it's a betrayal of your trust. It's not like he told you he was engaging in sex talk with someone else and you said, "Oh, that's okay."
No, you're not overracting.
2006-09-05 13:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would be very mad. You DO NOT joke like that with no one when you are in a relationship.
2006-09-05 13:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh in tis case u r NOT over reacting . y not send a msg out to a guy n telling u wanna F him all the way n show it to ur guy .
2006-09-05 14:43:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no i would kick my partners a** all over the street if i found that out about him have it out with him and let him know that you wont be walked all over. Good luck x
2006-09-05 14:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by the strange one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not over-reacting girl!! How about you send sexually suggestive messages to men....how would he like that?!!! Turn the tables and see how he feels!
2006-09-05 13:51:28 · answer #10 · answered by ohdearindeed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋