As always growing up I have been the loser I always nice to. Even people who i don't know. People like to treat me like ****. If their is other people out their who was treated like me and not any more. Tell me what sould I do so they won't be so mean to me.
2006-09-05 13:47:39 · 20 answers · asked by Lola 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
there will always be people who are cruel and cold, and make you feel like ****. That will never change, I'm sorry to say.
That, though, definitely doesn't make you a loser. It makes you one of the few people that make the world beautiful - because you aren't one of the ones showing kindness and sensitivity.
Don't worry about those people who bring you down - they aren't important. Embrace who you are, surround yourself with people like you, and live your life as your own.
2006-09-05 15:24:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...you are not a loser. A loser is someone who thinks they are a loser and you are not a loser! The people who are mean to you are people who are not happy with themselves. They are probably either superficial (hair, clothes, makeup) or losers (tease others to make up for the zit or ugly clothes they have on) themselves. Ignore those people. I know it is easier said than done but sometimes people just mess with you to get a rise out of you. Another thing, prayer changes things. ;)
Pray
Until
Something
Happens
Hang in there!
2006-09-05 13:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by ladymystique 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to stay away from the people that have a tendency to treat you like ****. You are better than that and you don't deserve it. People can be cruel but you don't have to take it or put up with it. If you see them coming your way simply ignore them and hold your head up straight and ignore them. Easier said than done I know, but give it a try alright and you will feel better about yourself and you will find that they will quit picking on you. Good Luck
2006-09-05 13:52:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, you must be a friend in order to have friends.
People may tend to treat you like a loser if that is what you think of yourself.
Stay nice and friendly to everyone and they should treat you the same.
2006-09-05 14:05:48 · answer #4 · answered by justme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lola -you are so not a loser. You are nice to others because that is the way you want to be treated. If others treat you like crap, then obviously they don't think too highly of themselves as they're basically treating you like they want to be treated. Just keep being your nice self...they can't help being mean, it's THEIR problem, not yours! :-) The only thing you can do is just keep being nice to them!
2006-09-05 13:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by wondering in michigan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself - They may be the ones who are losers or just don't know how to deal with people - Have you ever thought of that?
2006-09-05 13:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking of yourself as a loser, YOU ARE NOT, once you realise this you will be stronger and more able to be firm but polite to people who will soon realise that they can no longer treat you as a doormat. goodluck.
2006-09-05 13:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by mythmagicdragon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you all the time meet the wrong people , but i am sure that one day you will find the right guy and will be pleased for that
it is just to get experience in this life
take care
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2006-09-05 13:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by The rocket 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a person treats you bad tell them to kiss your a*s, you don't need any one to make you feel better about your self only you can make that happen! so next time some one is mean tou you tell them to fu*k off. be strong and don't let any one f*ck with you!!!! always walk with your head up high, if you feel like just helping some dont!!!!!!!!! wait till there a*s ask you then tell them no, (if thats the person who is mean to you.) and if you help some one and there mean to you,,,, like i said tell them to KISS YOUR A*SS!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 13:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by ladyindia2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone gets treated like s--t at times. it's how you handle it. try seeing as an opportunity to turn the other cheek. at times you need to shut people down. but don't get violent unless needed. try more-selfesteem.com. it helped me.
2006-09-05 15:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋