2006-09-05 13:44:17 · 23 answers · asked by once_upon_a_dream 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop. Don't take him back anymore. You don't love him, you just think you do. You love the idea of him...the idea of being in love, and you love what you WANT him to be. He will never change, and you need to heal. Once you build some confidence, you will find the one who is worthy of your love. Move on...you can do it!
2006-09-05 13:47:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will kept on breakin your heart because you let him to. You've showed him that he is your weakness, that no matter what he do, you can let him go and you would take him back and back again because you love him that much and that you can't survive without him.
I guess what you should do the next time he hurts you is break up with him. Show him that you can live your life without him. I know it wouldn't be that easy but think girl, which would you prefer a one-time ended broken heart or a repetitively breaking heart? both hurts but the degree differs.
And maybe in so doing, he'll realized how rude he'd been to you and put his feet back on the ground. Who knows? you might help make him a changed man..
2006-09-05 14:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Creine_Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds more like an obsession or a challenge to you. Does he Love you or use you? It sounds like you need to love and respect you! I don't know if you are a child or an adult,but he cannot control you like this unless you let him. Think about what this is really doing to you. He can only break your heart, if you allow it. For your own sake find something else that interests you and get on with your life. He may see this and realize that he doesn't want to lose you. If not, Live your Life!
2006-09-05 13:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is taking advantage of you because you constantly taking him back.. Leave him .. He is not worth your time because if he love you he won't break your heart and will be the other way around... If it keeps going on like this, sooner or later it will be the same again
2006-09-05 13:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. Some people got in that same situation, but I know someone in particular who was in the same situation as u,they stayed with their man because they both have been 2getther for a while off and on, but they eventually worked things out beter than they thought they would he loves her with all of his heart now. now he calls just to say he loves her, So just tell him that u are tired of playing around with him and you are getting really serious about the situation!
2006-09-05 14:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by *~THE DON DIVA~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep going back and let him continue to break your heart. What's wrong with you. Do you love him because he treats you like sh*t? Get away from him let him break someone elses heart.
2006-09-05 13:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you love someone who keeps breaking your heart. It doesn't sound like he loves you. He's just playing you... quit taking him back.
2006-09-05 13:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid
Stupid! Quit taking him back. You are hurting yourself.If a dog kept biting you every time you put your hand out, would you keep putting your hand out?As far as you loving him, you need to look at what it is you think love, Is it the abuse?
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2006-09-05 13:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by highpriestess7@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definition of love of which I'm aware includes someone breaking my heart. I suggest you look in your dictionary and see what it says about love. Why do you shortchange yourself with a guy who disrespects you and breaks your heart?
2006-09-05 13:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep letting him step all over your heart and self respect. It's your life.
2006-09-05 13:47:08 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋