We have been talking for a month now .... it started when i told him i knew he knew i liked him then i asked if he liked me too. he said yes but now that were talking he dont like it know what i mean. its my first relationship and hes 3 yrs older than me and has had more than 1 girl .... i jus dont know what to do how the steps go.... i dont want to go to fast or slow
2006-09-05 13:43:50 · 6 answers · asked by ~*Lynn*~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he said he liked you, but now you're getting mixed messages. Here's the thing - if he were your boyfriend, you'd know it. You wouldn't have to wonder about it.
It sounds like you don't know him well enough yet. Maybe you need to spend time just getting to know him, without any pressure to be boyfriend/girlfriend. Having a bad boyfriend is a lot worse than being alone, for one thing, and you might drive him away by seeming too needy.
If, as you get to know him, he wants you to be his girlfriend, he'll let you know. Meantime, get to know other boys too - one of them might be so enthusiastic about you that you won't have to wonder if he likes you or not.
2006-09-05 13:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by peculiarpup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not easy to read one's mind but the little things he does for you that u care about count the most. Does he make you happy or do you feel comfortable with him? If not, u might wanna put ur needs first and your foot down. its NB to know what you want from a relationship. Don't be his doormet. GLuck!
2006-09-05 20:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont do anything you may regret, and even though he has had more than 1 girl, give him a chance. people make mistakes, and they cant take them back. consider all the possibilties before dismissing him. but dont give in to an older man's charm, and end up doing something you cant live with. eek!
2006-09-05 20:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound too young.
Stay in school.
2006-09-05 20:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
he says he likes you so he can get into your pants.
2006-09-05 20:48:12 · answer #5 · answered by Crosscheck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe since he is your first bf, he is worried about you. that he might hurt you or scare you...
2006-09-05 20:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by myownlittlelonlyworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋