My gf was 1 month pregnant before i meet her, now shes almost 4, idk wat to do i love her to death but should i stay with her? Do u think the relationship will work?
2006-09-05 13:37:23 · 11 answers · asked by big boi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably not
2006-09-05 13:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by K Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been with this girl for 3 months and she's 4 months pregnant. First off, if you are young teens you're going to have a long hard road ahead of you raising a baby.You have 5 months to be alone together before the baby is born and then everything is going to change!That baby is going to take up all of her time and her attention away from you.Financially any extra cash that you are spending on having your fun time now will be spent to care for the baby.You'll definitely lose your together time because most of her time will be spent caring for the baby and it will be hard trying to find time to be alone with her. You're a very special person to want to take on this responsiblity, but you better think this one through and seriously talk this one out with your girlfriend.Find out what her plans are and what her ideas are, for when the baby comes.And don't forget,what seems like a good idea now may not seem like a good idea later! It takes two people to make a relationship work ,you both have to want this and be willing to work at it together if this is what you want. I can't tell you if the relationship will work, or I can't tell you that it won't.It depends on the both of you and how hard you're both willing to work together to make it work out!I think you may have some doubts in your mind, think about what you need for you. Where do you want to go with your life and what do you see your life being after the baby is born? If it's not what you see in your future with your girlfriend and her baby, then you have to think about leaving.Don't give her "false" hopes. She's got a hard road ahead without adding a heartbreak to her problems. If you decide to leave and she gets her life in order who knows, maybe down the road,there could always be another chance.If not, you know you did the right thing!
2006-09-05 21:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by noditz57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with her. Just cause she's pregnant don't make her any different. I understand if you don't want to be a father, then you know, break up. But if you really love her support her. The relationship will work... Trust me â¥
2006-09-05 20:41:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you dude. thats really hard. was she honest with you and she told you before you guys got together? but hey if you really love her theres no obstacles for that. so go for it. i would if i really loved a person. i think the relationship would work cuz that would be a way to demonstrate to her that you really do love her and that you do want to be with her. another thing you gotta think is are you ready to be a daddy? cuz automatically you pretty much are going to become the daddy. but my advice to you is if you really love her. stay with her. i would.
2006-09-05 20:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur willing to accept the child she is carrying and if u want a serious relationship and u see a future w/her then yes.. but if a packaged deal is not for u then move on cause that's exactly what it is.. don't wait til she's given birth to change ur mind...
2006-09-05 20:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. U should stay with her. Because, u love her. If it's true love, then yeah it'll work
2006-09-05 20:50:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tyegirl01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think if you do stay it will put alot of pressure on you to help take care of it even though it's not yours
IF you really love her......stay with her and everything with her
2006-09-05 20:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by *only~wishful~thinking* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her then you'll stand by her side and accept that baby.But if you can't accept her baby then you shouldn't be with her.
2006-09-05 20:41:10 · answer #8 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter if she pregnant. it matter is that u love her .if u just don't wat to be together because she is pregnant , then that u mean that u don't love her and u just like her because of her looks and how she acts.
2006-09-05 21:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to her and tell her what you think but make up your mind as soon as possible don't be stringing her along and then braking her heart later on
2006-09-05 20:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by clair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure i think it will as long as u both want it to work
2006-09-05 20:40:00 · answer #11 · answered by nadaclue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋