so I'm 19, average height, dark brown hair, skinny, and I hear that I am a very attractive girl. The problem is that I only seem to get hit on or go out with the creepiest and weirdest guys. I don't know if there is something about me that only attracts these types of men but what do I have to do to get a nice, sweet, funny, and caring guy to like me enough to approach me or ask me out? all I want is someone that won't hurt me... is that too much to ask?!
2006-09-05 13:29:29 · 17 answers · asked by Dewdlebug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it is not too much to ask. But alot of guys have been taught by hard experience that most of the best girls only respond to the wilder guys. Nice guys finish last is not only a saying it is very much true. You need to judge the creepy guys and figure out if they are salvagable. Some, probably more than half, are just acting that way because they think you will respond to that best. If you touched one you thought salvagable just on the arm and asked him 'is this the way you really are or are you just acting this way because you think that is what I want' If they admit they are just putting on the act they thought you wanted, you might find a good guy in disguise. If they say that is how they are you might have to counter with "Pity" removing your hand "I was hoping for so much more from you"
You will be amazd how many guys will suddenly show that thier true colors are not as creepy as you thought initially.
I also wonder, if there are not a number of good guys that suffer from the shyness (as I did once) that thir is no way I have a chance with her, and therefore do not even ask for your hand for a dance or anything because it would be impossible, some of us just assume we are not good enough for that fine chick over there and dont even ask, not even realizing how trully lonely she really is for somone like us. But shyness is a terrible affliction for which there is no medical help except maybe alcohol, but that does not really make it easier even if it can reduce inhibitions
2006-09-05 13:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by admiralgill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Havnt you ever heard of the Law of Attraction? You are attracting weird guys because your concentrating on the fact you dont want weird guys hitting on you. You give your focus on that so thats what yo attract. Its really simple, all you have to do is concentrate on the kind of guys that you do want, and have that good feeling as if you are already attracting them, then the universe will have no choice but to produce that which your concentrating on. Its easy. Try it. Its all about focus along with good feelings.
2006-09-05 13:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by Keith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are very attractive then it should not be too difficult for you to come up to guys you like yourself. 95% of the human race would give anything to be as good-looking as you seem to be.
Giving a guy "the eyes" is a good start. Talk to them, smile, laugh at their pathetic jokes... all good signs.
2006-09-05 13:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by s_e_e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Develop enough self respect that you don't just go out with whomever asks.
Wait for what you want and don't use the creepy weird guys just to have something to go do.
It's a matter of creating the image for yourself.
2006-09-05 13:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ! you know,maybe because your surrounded by such creepiest or weirdest guys,thats why no one is one of youl like , i think you better try to look to other place
2006-09-05 13:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by muyak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice, sweet, funny, and caring guys don't ask girls out.
2006-09-05 13:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
grl should have basic instinct to smell intentions of guys
so sharp ur skill to find boy of ur type
but my suggestion to u is never try to change somebody
give him space
grl shld learn how to mould guy into ur own way
2006-09-05 13:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try askin not creepy guys out.
2006-09-05 13:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like yourself first, When you are comfortable with who you are and really like yourself, you automatically attract people who will treat you right. You must first respect yourself.
2006-09-05 13:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, baby. But listen; I've got a place nearby...maybe we can hang out and get to know each other....hehehehe
2006-09-05 13:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋