He called to say he's sorry for dumping me. I played it cool. He never called again. Few weeks after I realized I still want him then gave him a call. I never hard from him again. Did I hurt him by playing it cool that's he didnt call after I did. Should I call him again?
2006-09-05 13:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by RedColette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don’t know that ‘pride’ really has all that much to do with what you are talking about.
I’m inclined to look at self-pride as being how good you feel about yourself, and how ‘worthy’ you believe you are as a human being.
You mentioned that he called to say he was sorry for dumping you.
You didn’t mention ‘why’ he dumped you…. Or how good or serious the relationship was prior to him dumping you…. Or for that matter, how long you had been going together.
It’s a matter of fact, you have given me very little information to work on.
I don’t know if he was hurt that you ‘played it cool and didn’t call him for two weeks’.
He probably just thought that you didn’t care that he dumped you, and that he probably should have dumped you earlier.
I guess there is only one way that you are going to find out, if you really want to… ask him!!!
2006-09-05 13:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to 'leave sleeping dogs lie' sweetie.
Sounds like you are doing just fine without him. He does not seem very considerate of your feelings if he 'dumped' you as you state he did, need more info on what happened there.
You did hurt his EGO I think besides his pride, he expected you to be a 'damsel in distress' wringing your hands and weeping.....
If he calls back again and you feel it is right,(only you will know if it is right or not)- suggest you just be friends for now, keep playing it cool and most important of all look out for YOUR happiness, it is your resposibility !
Good luck !
2006-09-05 20:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him again. Give it a month or two then if you still have feelings for him give him a call just to see how he's doing. If you wait you will both have clear heads and not be as emotional.
2006-09-05 20:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are hunters by nature. Its in their biology. If he trully wanted you back...he'd be beating down your door, stalking your friends, and writing and calling nonstop. Move on, he has...and if somewhere down the road he has an epiphany and comes crawling back doing all of the above...then you can rethink it. But until then, he doesn't deserve a second thought, much less a phone call.
2006-09-05 20:28:40 · answer #4 · answered by BarbwireNRoses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he gave it time after he dumped you hoping he could call up and apologize and you still be just friends. Had you considered that?
2006-09-05 20:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by yeller 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no dont call he wants to play games till he grows up he will call u ....dont call ....call 4 what? if he wanted to talk to u he will can.. he dont want to talk to u that bad now do he? he could be just keeping u on the side lines to throw u off just in case the new chick dont work out... be smart
2006-09-05 20:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he didn't and doesn't show any indication that he still wants you. It's simple, he felt bad for dumping you, and that's that. There are no hidden messages behind it.
2006-09-05 20:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lautrec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call himagain if you want
2006-09-05 20:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he wants nothing to do with you.. sorry.
2006-09-05 20:26:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother. move on. he has
2006-09-05 20:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by chlo_bo69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋