Why am i so scared?

Question

I love my girlfriend so much but as were students we have to live apart during the summer. We see each other loads and r always speaking on the phone and i know shes the one for me and shes told me she wants to marry me. But we sometimes have silly little arguments and as this is my first relationship im so scared that she will break up with me even tho she wouldnt. Can anybody help me get over this fear and if anybodys got a miracle for easing the pain for when were apart, then name your price

Answer 1

It's as simple as this mate...you've gotta learn to trust her.
Base your relationship on trust and it'll go a long way. As this is your first relationship, the chances are it won't be your last. There's no point being scared, it helps no-one. When you've had a few more summers apart, you'll know if you can trust her. If you find in the future that you can't trust her, then find someone you can!

Answer 2

I have no price but mind u not every first relation last to the point of getting married and don't be scared be a man and get over the fear, if she leave u today u will still find another that is more better than her. Also, is a normal thing for every relation to have argument on anything b'cos this is how u will know each other and where u were weak and were u strong be a man and don't let any fear to come overcome u.

Answer 3

you shouldn't be thinking or be scared about breaking up, the more you think about it the more will get to you. Not a lot of people know whether or not they know it's the one they one to be with with first love, there are people who are eachother's first and end up marrying and live happily ever after, that doesn't happen very often. Arguments in relationships are natural, they are there to make the relationship stronger. If you break up, just look at it as your first experience in loving someone, and you learn from it. Yes it hurts, there's no other way to heal the pain faster, it takes time. so, you should just enjoy your relationship with your girlfriend, don't worry about the breaking up part.

Answer 4

Me and my wife used to have silly little arguements like you do,most couples do,we were seeing one and other for 5 years,now been married for 10 years,got 2 kids,we now have loads of fun,if you just work at your relationship,and youre in love so much im sure itll work out in the end and you 2 will get married eventually,just keep at it.good luck

Answer 5

Sounds like the love bug hun just enjoy it because the more that you worry about this you will start to think that some thing is up when really you are just worrying to much and it could push you apart. Just try to make sure that the time that you do spend together is memorable. I hope it all stays good for you both x

Answer 6

Well u seem that you love her a lot, but not so much that u want to marry her. Try telling her how u feel and putting the marriage of for a little. i mean you can have a long engagement, you don't have to get married right away

Answer 7

Just be the best person you can be, and don't let fear control you. There are so many people out there. Let God be in charge of the outcome and you'll always end up happier.

Answer 8

i wish i hv tis pill 4 u . but i strongly believe u don't need it . all u hv 2 do is b urself n cultivate a more positive out look 2wards life n u will grow 2 b more confidence each time .

Answer 9

I once used to be in your situation me and my boyfriend used to be seperated. To deal with my pain I always kept in my that we loved each other. I send letters to him and talk to him once and then over the phone. I had asked my boyfriend to marry me and he had thought about it and said yes. well, good luck.

Answer 10

simple your scared because this is your first real relations ship and you havent felt like thi before call down when your scared or insucure that is the best way for a ended relationship