i talked to her so many times but she always ignroing,,i need a girl who understands my needs,,,without begging,,she is like pain in the a r s e?!!but i love her and i dont want her to be hurted,,,i tried as much as i could with her but no Resutl,,she just like to take and dont like to give in everything,,,,including love and sexual life!
2006-09-05 13:03:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BE HONEST!!!!
2006-09-05 13:05:07 · answer #1 · answered by Heather G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you don't like her in any respect then. in case you loved her, you would appreciate the very shown reality that she's seeing someone and be a authentic guy and not in any respect intervene. If she's chuffed, and also you "like" her like you declare you do, then "getting rid" of the guy actually shows that you do not look after her in any respect. even with the reality that in case you do ruin her modern-day courting and she or he finally ends up courting you, who's to say another guy gained't see you as a chump and attempt to interrupt you 2 up? how are you going to experience even as she ditches you for some guy who's actually behaving an same way you probably did initially? If she'll do it to her modern-day boyfriend then she'll haven't any qualms about doing it to you.
2016-12-06 11:47:18 · answer #2 · answered by kelm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you can NEVER end a relationship without hurt - but sometimes it causes MORE hurt to try to continue in a relationship that is never going to have a happy ending.
So I see it as you having 3 choices on the best way to end this doomed association -
1) Copy your question into a word document - print it out - and hand it to her. (Job done.)
2) TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL! (Job done.)
3) NEVER tell her - and end up in a marriage where you are BOTH miserable for the rest of your lives - or until someone commits suicide or murder!!
I recommend "2)"
2006-09-05 13:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by franja 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only way she will understand that u dont want her is if u hurt her because if u do so then she will not want u because u hurt her and i think u should just tell her again that u dont wanna be with her and then find another girl and go out with her on a date and make sure ur ex sees it so she knows that u want the other girl and not her. that will probably make her want to find another guy to make u jealous.
2006-09-05 13:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell, no one ever said the hard way would be easy. tell, the freakin truth. Get her attention and keep it. Look into her face and tell her "This isn't what I want. I don't want this. i don't want you. I'm sorry I had to do this but that's the way it is." And then leave. If she can't meet you halfway, walk away. If she loved you like you loved her, she'd let you go. Do the right thing and help her out.
2006-09-05 13:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by hunnybee032001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be honest with her about your feelings and if you no longer want to see her - then you need to express that. The sooner the better as well..
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 13:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her be honest about what the problem/problems are if she feels the same way about you as you feel about her then she will respect your choice and move on like they say "if you love some1 enough then you will let them go" Good luck x
2006-09-05 14:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by the strange one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No easy way. You just have to be firm while still respecting her feelings. Otherwise it'll drag on. Try the link below for some useful advice
2006-09-05 13:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all breakups hurt,its human,try telling her ur not happy with the way things r,n u feel that ur needs arnt being delt with,ne decent girl wud listen,n if she was that botherd she would sort her self out for u,so ur both happy.that way non of u wud get hurt,n ud b saving a relationship.
2006-09-05 13:34:56 · answer #9 · answered by onlymedear7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend you got a knock on the head and you've lost all memory of her. Tell her your sorry but you want to live your life, see the world etc etc.
2006-09-05 13:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Dave N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she doesn't fill your emotional needs, and you need someone who can. Breakups always hurt, there is no way around that. It's called breaking up because something in the relationship is broken.
2006-09-05 13:07:09 · answer #11 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋