I have been dating this guy for 2 months. I really like him. We see each other a couple of time per week and always have sex 3-4 times each time. We also go out and watch movies and dinners.. However, during the weekdays both of us are working. I really don't want us to waste the time going out for movie or nice restuarants ( we always do that) . I won't mind just eat in and hang out. Would it be OK. if I tell him that I want to come over, have sex , watch T.V and just grab something from the fridge? Would that be too straightforward or unromantic for him? Would you guys think less of your women if she told that to you ?
2006-09-05 12:51:17 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To response to some answers, we are both really attractive , very high income.. My point is we don't have much time to spend during the weekday so I am trying to make every minute counted.
2006-09-05 13:04:09 · update #1
hell no i like when my wife tells me she wants to be laid but coming from a chick and the way that u put it you might just make him feel like he s being used for sex and yes that is possible
2006-09-05 12:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by glass_city_hustla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not i think he would be flattered most of thm do the whole wine and dine just to get you in bed are sure you are ready to give up on making him work for it though? but hey its cool i wouldnt say i wanna come over for sex just say honey i dont feel like going out lets just get a movie and a pizza and i'll come over there instead of going out im sure after that you can both read each others minds if you both want sex.
2006-09-05 12:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know the answer the guys will give you on this question...obviously they'd want to have sex too. but idon't think you should focus your relationship about sex. you need to have the connection that you get from knowing one another and being comfortable just talking with your boyfriend. don't make it all physical because that is just hurting your relationship in the long run. unless you don't see it going very far. in that case, you need to stop having sex and end the relationship because you're only hurting yourself.
2006-09-05 12:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants a different kind of relationship than you do. How bout making dinner for him and putting in a movie and see what happens?
I think he will think you are someone to have sex with and nothing more, but if that's what you want, then what do you care what others think?
2006-09-05 12:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so awesome!!!! Every women should think like you! No he will not get offended your probably saving him money from taking you to nice expensive dinners. But the movie thing he may like that so you have to give just a little. But spice it up give him a b.j. when your watching the movie that will seal any deal!!
2006-09-05 12:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alucard 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It'll differ between guys, so use your personal judgement on this one. Decide if he'd be ok with that based on his personality.
Personally, I wouldn't mind at all. Its nice to be casual like that from time to time, and I enjoy it throughly.
But if she was like that every time, it would get to be a huge turn off.
So just don't abuse it.
2006-09-05 12:56:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both feel comfortable to each others and don't feel awkward of being silly and crazy.. why not? We often say something like that, it's nice to know that we can share everything to our partner as long as we don't lose trust and respect to each other.
2006-09-05 12:55:29 · answer #7 · answered by Nadia Miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no -I like when a woman knows what she wants-
a big hot throbbing sausage.
But, you must come prepared - If you
want the guy's soldier to be ready- you should
be dressed to kill- nice little skirt, pantyhose, and heels-
then the guy will take care of the rest
2006-09-05 12:54:33 · answer #8 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy. What would guy wouldn't love that. Sex without having to spend the money. Your nuts if you think he wouldn't like that.
2006-09-05 12:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by chula 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't even have to explain it...just ask him if he'd lke to come over to eat and watch a movie.... the rest will just happen.
2006-09-05 12:55:04 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋