I dnt know what is the worse feeling, being cheated on or being dumped for other reasons.
2006-09-05 12:49:21 · 13 answers · asked by RedColette 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think both cause alot of pain, angst, betrayel. but being dumped" for other reasons, the ego gets bruised, you may miss the person or not understand their reasons, but at least you (hopefully) know the reasoning behind the choice. even if it is not yours. cheating, though common and human, is ultumate feeling of betrayal, the honesty and integrity is not there in the act, so that would be my personal perspective.
2006-09-05 12:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cheated on is far worse!! I can't stand guys who think they are smarter and think that they can get away with it!!!
Being dumped means being honest enough to tell the other person the truth. This is something I can handle. Even though it will hurt for a while. It's better to tell the truth to someone than to be selfish.
2006-09-05 13:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cheated on is worse. It is a complete betrayal. At least if someones dumps you, they have enought respect and are honest enough to let you know they want out.
2006-09-05 12:54:01 · answer #3 · answered by forallitsworth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think each one of them cause a different kind of pain,cheating :will has an effect on trusting people,affecting your self trust(when a guy cheated a girl she will keep asking herself what is the wrong with me!why he cheated me!and that is so painful!!!)a person who was being dumped will experience a different pain and unfortunately he/she has the hope that he/she will return,waiting is so painful,i hate both being cheated and being dumped!!!
2006-09-05 13:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
being cheated on is worse. ..if you are dumped, at least the person is being honest with you about his motives. if he cheats, it's something that he is hiding and being dishonest about. no good
2006-09-05 12:55:23 · answer #5 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being cheated on is worse :(
2006-09-05 12:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being cheated on cuz most likely after some one cheats u wont be together any more
2006-09-05 12:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by kimgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being cheated on is much worse.
2006-09-05 12:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being cheated on. if you are dumped you can get closure and move on. if you are cheated on you lose trust in others and you lose belief in your self worth.
2006-09-05 12:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tricky question because if you are a good women both hurts. Neither one is easy to deal with.
2006-09-05 12:54:54 · answer #10 · answered by Wan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋