personally, i think guys need to sack up and start chasing girls more...most young guys these days think they are "players" because they get chased when really they just dont know how to talk to girls
2006-09-05 12:16:34 · 20 answers · asked by SweetChildofMine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Excellent question, and I agree: boys should do the chasing, and for many reasons. The best reason is that if a guy gets a gal without a lot of hard work, he does not feel like he really "earned" it. I'm a guy, trust me, but I've always felt that women were the superior gender in nearly all ways sans physical.
A good woman will not necessarily make a guy "earn" it so much as to "make him prove that he is worthy of having her". It of course is a two-way street, and a good man should do the same when it comes to a good woman.
Out of my close friends that are married, the happiest tend to be the ones that have a great story of how the guy earned her trust and love. When there was no chase, they lack that spark it seems, unless they were one of those "once in a blue moon" couples that have had amazing interpersonal chemistry from the first glance (love at first sight...it happens, but very rarely...and is not really all that important in the long run).
2006-09-05 12:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I currently would not be considered a "player" as I don't "get any." Why don't I "get any?" Well, that's because I don't chase girls just as you said... and I really don't have too many girls chasing after me in college as everyone is in their own worlds here...
But I think that girls should at least give guys a little bit of leeway. I mean, there are girls I like but 90 percent of them don't even give any help for us by at least showing some enthusiasm. Most of them are carefree and too busy to show guys they are interested which only makes it more difficult for us to adapt to the situation.
2006-09-05 12:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by benh316 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls should never chase guys. If they do the guys will be thinking that they are so cool and hot cause all these girls are chasing after him. Wait for a guy to chase you(if he likes you) don't try so hard.
2006-09-05 12:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by missdominicana22 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
hell yeah girls should chase guys! it's always the guys who chase the girls (with a few exceptions of course). it'd be nice to be the one chased once in a while.
2006-09-05 12:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by kiss my wookie! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this a race? Look if your interested in someone, then go after him. Guys won't chase what they don't want.
2006-09-05 12:33:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that women are almost equal to men, they should suck it up and join in the chase. Quit being so lazy.
2006-09-05 12:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no let the guy Chase you its more fun and it makes them want you even more they have to think what they can do to be with you,
2006-09-05 12:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so true,
They are little to know that we are not chasing, They think we are but is lame to even talk to them a second time.
They need to grow up.
2006-09-05 12:19:20 · answer #8 · answered by latina lover 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends if the guy is worth chasing & want to be caught!!!!
2006-09-05 12:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No girls shouldn't chase guys to desprate if guys want girls then they hould go up to them, not wait for them to come to them.
2006-09-05 12:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by masterurownmind 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋