i recently broke up with the father of my son.he said he couldnt handle our son and that he needs to be by himself.He swears it aint because of me,but now he doesnt wanna talk to me as much and doesnt care if he see's me.He likes the fact he can pick up and leave when ever he pleases and likes that no one can ask him where hes goin going what time he'll be home
2006-09-05 12:05:05 · 11 answers · asked by mrs.A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You ask him to sign papers to give you full custody of your child .. the last thing you need is for him to come and go out of your son's life - to cause confusion. Just be the best mom to your son, show him how special and loved he is, and give him the stable life he deserves.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 12:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should have been addressed before you got pregnant and brought a life into this world. Unfortunately, because it wasn't, you now have to deal with it. Get child support for him and maybe in 10 years he'll come around. Write him off until then, and please be sure to finish school to give your child a good role model. Good luck to you.
**What do you think of a guy who says he can't handle his 2 year old son and wants to be by himself?
I recently broke up with the father of my son. He said he couldn't handle our son and that he needs to be by himself. He swears it isn't because of me, but now he doesnt want to talk to me as frequently as he used to and doesn't care if he sees me. He likes the fact he can pick up and leave whenever he pleases and likes that no one can ask him where he's going or what time he'll be home.
2006-09-05 12:19:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in other words, he wants his cake and to eat it too.
he doesnt want responcibilities and as long as he thinks that he can come home whenever he has the time, he is going to like the arrangement.
write him off because he is wasting your time. you have a son to support and its too confusing to your son for his dad to be running in and out whenever the mood strikes him. if he cant handle his son, then he has the problem. not you or your son. if you really love him, tell him to come back when he grows up. otherwise write him off and check out the others
2006-09-08 20:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a child as well. You didn't really need another child to take care of, right? I would encourage him to spend time with his son, and be sure he's paying his share of support. I wouldn't expect anything else from him though. Good luck!
2006-09-05 12:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Strain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using your son as an excuse to leave you. That is unfortunate for your son that he would do something so immature. Sounds like he just wants to bail out because he has found someone or something else.
2006-09-05 12:11:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus on you and your son, your partner is a grown man and will have to look after him self.. you need to let him know the boundaries and not to walk in and out of your son's life.. As the lad gets older, it could break his heart if daddy is there one moment gone the next.. get some legal advice too!
2006-09-05 12:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by dianafpacker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you and your son will be better off without him in the long run just make sure he is paying child support don't let him weasel his way out of that responsibility to
2006-09-05 12:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
extra like countless incorrect way around.. while i became into relationship my ex who became into white white women have been staring no longer trouble-free and white men have been giving him props. actually white women are very jelous resentful human beings.. and that they think of the completed worldwide must be like them while particularly they elect to be much less white.. while have you ever seen a white guy obess over getting a tan or getting botox in his lips? its continuously white women folk needing to be something yet white it is why they run off to black men. a minimum of white men are proud of their custom yet on a similar time haven't any hassle relationship minority women folk.. white women folk are very at a loss for words and its no longer healthful to date interracially in the adventure that your no longer satisfied with the floor you're in.
2016-12-12 03:15:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's being selfish and immature..he needs to grow up because he has a wife and son.
2006-09-05 12:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he said that to you and you didn't slap him!?
he has no right to say that he doesn't want to be with his OWN kid, maybe he should act like a man and stop having babies that he doesn't want to see.
2006-09-05 12:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by enigma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋