There is this guy that i have known since freshman year. We were alwasy playing around, and all his friends thought we went out, and would kid around with us. so our sophmore year, we finally told each other we liked each other, and decidec to hang out together after school. The next day after we hung out he was kinid of avoiding me, when i went to talk to him. He said he didnt feel like talking, so i left, but when he got down stairs out side, he was all up in some girls face, who he said he was once going to get with. After that we didnt speak to each other for a good two or three weeks before summer break. What does this mean. should i forget about him, or should i try to get with him.
2006-09-05 11:43:46 · 27 answers · asked by TRU ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have known each other for a while, so it seems to me that all of this just felt too awkward for him. Sometimes when people know each other that long, yo feel more like a close friend then a potential lover. I would say talk to him. Find out what is going on and where he stands. If you just act like another jealous woman it will just push him away...
2006-09-05 12:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Optimus P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honestly I believe that If he really cared about you he wouldn't have acted the way he did with you the next day after yall got done hanging out cuz it seem like he didn't have any reason unless you did something he didn't like and wasn't man enough and told you right their and then .. You Feel Me... So what I think you should do is try to find someone better that's worth it and sure dont act like no little kid like he was acting when he didn't want to talk to you and then be all over some chicken head ... Well I hope dat what I said helps...
2006-09-05 18:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry my friend but my advice would be to just let it go and see what happens. I have found that when you put too much energy into making a relationship happen it rarley works out the way we want. If this guy is interested in you and ready to take things to the next level he will let you know and you won't have to work so hard. Meanwhile while your waiting for him to figure out what he wants...don't close off any options. There might be someone better. Good luck.
2006-09-05 18:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave all of your options open and see what he does. Make him explain his actions and if it sounds like too much work to make things happen between you, tell him you'll be better off as friends.
If you want to date someone else, do it. Don't pine for him or sit around and try to anticipate his next move. Then you're his prisoner. Be free and careless and believe that it will work itself out as it should!
2006-09-05 18:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forget about him... If he really wants you then he will come for you. But get noticed from him.. Go hang out where he hangs.. Let him see ya and look hott. And if he talks to you, make it brief and simple like you dont care.That usually works for me.
2006-09-05 18:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by Angelica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a playa!
I would forget about him!
You shouldnt waste your time trying to get with a guy who is that confused or who likes to play games.
2006-09-05 18:47:05 · answer #6 · answered by Lindsey H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw, move on...I think he was hoping for something other than better friendship and maybe after hangin out he didn't think it was going that way. Doesn't mean you need to try and make it go that way either...
2006-09-05 18:59:07 · answer #7 · answered by apeake31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably likes the other more than he likes you. So get yourself another man and forget about him.
2006-09-05 18:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him
2006-09-05 18:46:12 · answer #9 · answered by babybeast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. It's a new year, you'll find plenty of dudes that are nice.
2006-09-05 18:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋