I am 15 and i have a really strict mom. She won't let my boyfriend and i withing 6 inches of each other. His birthday is coming up, and i would like us just to be able to be alone for a night......... that's all, be alone. but my mom will think we are doing other wise and barge in on us... she doesnt believe i should have privacy... what do i do?
2006-09-05 11:41:33 · 17 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what can you do? you can whine and moan about it but at the end of the day, you gotta listen to your mom.
also, even though you don't believe it, when you have a 15 y.o. daughter, there's no way your gonna let her spend the night with her boyfriend.
2006-09-05 11:46:50 · answer #1 · answered by richard457 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is very smart! Not strict. You are 15. Letting you be "alone" with your boyfriend would be a "stupid and dangerous" thing for your mom to allow. What exactly do you think your boyfriend, is going to want you to give him for his birthday? Privacy at your age is at your parents discretion and can be changed as the need arises! Get over it! Mom really does know best!
2006-09-05 11:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Painter Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your mother's rules in her house, she is just trying to keep this teen thug from knocking you up.
Are you really all that interested in this worthless punk getting you pregnant, then running away crying that it isn't his baby, that you must have been messing around behind his back and calling you names that should never be spoken?!!!
I am being honest with you, if I was alone with you on my birthday I would anticipate something and would use every trick in the book to get it, including blasting your controlling mother and how you can get back at her by taking charge for once in your life and doing what you want.
In other words, I'm a guy, we want sex, and will do anything in our power to get it including trickery, guilt, and begging on our knees with tears streaking down our faces as we declair our eternal love for you...sound familiar? ...don't worry, it will.
Give mom a hug and thank her for wanting to give you a future where you get to finish school, get a degree and make your own money!!! Take care of YOU, girl, and be able to stand on your own two feet!
2006-09-05 11:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her that she can trust you. Just being alone with a guy means different things. Temptation creeps in when two people are alone together. Your mom is just looking out for you, she doesn't want you to be hurt.
2006-09-05 11:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself... how many times did my boyfriend tell me he loved me..... generally with those words come a motive and your mom has every right to be worried. Guys say they love you at that age for one reason only...... yeah sex. Listen to mom. I have 5 kids... with the boys I worry about the boy himself but with my girls I worry about all the boys.... 99 out of 100 want to get in your pants. Nothing but the truth here.
2006-09-05 11:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by john s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be alone with a boy, especially for a night?
You don't need that much privacy.
2006-09-05 11:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to "go with the flow" on this one. Your mom may trust you but your boyfriend is a different "story". Be cool with it - it will change before you know it!
2006-09-05 11:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by dmspartan2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what your mother says. Being alone DOES lead to "other things." You are lucky to get to date at all. I didn't get to date until I was 16 and you know what? Being alone led to "other things."
2006-09-05 11:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Mom is strict because she cares about you. Listen and you will be glad you did.
2006-09-05 11:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
till your 18 you have to suck it up.
My mom was like that, but instead of buggin her about it, prove that she can trust you.... when she knows that she can trust the two of you, you might have some more leverage
2006-09-05 11:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by keep your head up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋