alright i meet this girl at a high school football game and i am goin to her school in 2 days and i wana get to know her better. we only have one class together and the teacher is know to be strick about not talking. i dont have luch with her and she is really beautiful so i would think that she is popular. i know some of her friends and they are cool. i really liked it when we talked at the game and i cant get her face out of my head. so what should i do to get to know her better. (we are in 9th grade). i am goin to write a note but i dont know what to start with and should i give it to her directly or put it in her locker
2006-09-05 11:41:18 · 17 answers · asked by yung joc 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats a great idea. Write your feelings in the letter and give it to her directly. Its really sweet of you doing this for her.
Trisha
2006-09-05 11:44:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all be honest, tell her what is on your mind. Talk about things that interest you, and ask her what she is "into". Avoid talking about anything "sexual". Find out when you can talk to her again, maybe by phone or in person, and let her know that you enjoyed talking to her at the game. Make her feel like you are into her for who she is. Also, I'd give the note to her in person. It will mean more.
2006-09-05 18:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by jennylove21326 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to sit next to her in class (that is unless they have assigned seating) Maybe you can start up a conversation before or after class if the seating is not possible. Let her know that you had a great time with her at the game. These are all ways that you can let her know that you want to get to know her better.
Good luck:)
2006-09-05 18:46:30 · answer #3 · answered by rosie91380 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find out what all she is interested in. Cheerleading, etc. Go watch. Make yourself visable. The note is too soon. Make it a point to get to know her and what she is in to. Believe it or not. Looks are not that important. Girls want attentive understanding and "real" guys. The note is too forward. Let her notice you first. God I hope your a guy!
2006-09-05 18:48:09 · answer #4 · answered by Suu_Suu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, you sound so sweet. Try to get to class early and chat with her before the bell rings. Offer to walk her to her next class after your class is out and get to know her better. I think notes are sometimes cheesy and difficult to write if you don't know the person really well.
2006-09-05 18:44:26 · answer #5 · answered by MzHazelnut22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know where her locker is stop by and say Hi. remember me. Tell her you liked something she said and it made you think or feel good just b4 you you go your merry way say "I think I'm in Love in that way like you are not serious but wait maybe you are. works for me every time oh yeah and listen and reflect back what she says they love that it shows you are paying attention and are interested. It helps if you really are listening
2006-09-05 18:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by icheeknows 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her that you think she is really nice and you were wondering if she would like to go to the park on Saturday or go ride bikes or something like that so that you have a chance to talk to her and get to know her. If you took her to a movie you wouldn't have a chance to talk. Ask your Mom or go to some place and ask them to fix you a lunch for the park. That was one of my most memorable dates..Good Luck to You!!
2006-09-05 18:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though im a male i had the same delema...
i you don't know her QUITE yet, write in the letter that you want to hang out with her somewhere, when you meet, give her your phone number, if she calls keep hanging out for a while, untill you really get to know eachother, then ask her,
2006-09-05 18:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lord, why don't you just find a streetwalker who will do you for $20, so you don't have to jump through hoops just to get some 'tang.
leave a note in her locker? what a dweeb!
2006-09-05 18:45:54 · answer #9 · answered by Dalma S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try walking her to her next class. Ask her about the game you just went to and if she wants to go to the next one with you. Good luck.
2006-09-05 18:43:50 · answer #10 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋