We met one year ago,and i loved her from the first time i saw her.I went to germany and kissed another girl,the girl e-maild me and that is how she found out.I dont want to loose my girlfreind,I know she's the girl i want to spend my life with.
2006-09-05 11:32:53 · 30 answers · asked by Brenden V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember women never forget....good luck
2006-09-05 11:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Hammer 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
honey there is always hope for love if u make a mistake once it doesn't mean it is the end of the world so to do the right thing u should work things out with her and let her know how u feel.
Saying sorry may not always be the answer so give her sometime it is going to be hard for u to gain trust by her so it may seem very solitary but do what's right and hope and pray that she will trust u again if u love her and her only would u let her go?
Tell her the truth and just admit to the fact why did u betray love because it hurts but that does not mean u cannot change no one is perfect so she'll come around if not sooner or later she may realize and regret forever the man of her dreams.
2006-09-05 19:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this girl you will not need to shout it about the roof tops, she will know that from your gestures and the fact that you avoid other women, you have messed up mate, she will never fully trust you ever, if you really love someone, you have to let them go, if she will ever forgive you then she will come back to you, it's a case of ce serra serra, whatever is meant to be is meant to be, you have seriously hurt this girl and it's her time to make decisions, just because someone offers you a sweet, it doen't mean you have to eat it, especially if you are already full like you keep trying to tell the world, know what I mean,
honesty and trust is what nurtures love, you have screwed up with both, if she is the love of your life then why did you kiss someone else? she needs to tell you a few home truths, some people would forgive, they are few and far between, do you deserve that, love is nurtured every day, good luck mate as if you love her you wouldn't be asking this question to millions of people, you would be at home with the one you love with no guilt about other women, I think youv'e just bitten a big chunk outta your **** and it'll be a long time before you sit comfortably again.
Good Luck.
2006-09-05 18:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Robert E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is the problem. All human beings are made with two innate instincts, survival and reproduction. It is human nature to see something you like (the attraction part) and act on it (the kissing part). As much as you love someone, that love alone is not usually enough to magically stop a person from being attracted to another, or to keep another physically satisfied for a lifetime. This is where self control comes in to play. A person needs to have enough self control to recognize the primal instinct and deny it. You need to prove to her that this will not happen again. Because, one day, you will see someone that you are very attracted to. She needs to be sure that you will not act out on it again. There is trust that needs to be built up again. You need to communicate your feelings, look her straight in the eyes, and avoid kissing German girls. Good Luck.
2006-09-05 18:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by MSU 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and explain to her what happened. Tell her how much you love her and that you would like to prove yourself to her then kiss her butt for the rest of your life. If she doesnt forgive you then you are outta luck because its terrible being in a relationship where there is no trust.
2006-09-05 18:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize to her and take her somewhere special, and tell her that you want to marry her. Earn her trust back. And e-mail the girl you kissed and tell her that you don't like her and that you have a girl that you want to marry. And remember that everyone makes mistakes, you just have to fix them. And try not to make them again.
2006-09-05 18:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why did you cheat on her ... it sounds to me like you would have quite happily lied to her & kept the cheating a secret had it not been for the other woman emailing you. That's not a great attitude to have for the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with ..... it should all be about respect.
To tell you the honest truth it's less about what you can do but more about what she decides to do!!
2006-09-05 18:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love this girl so much, want to marry her, spend teh rest of your life with her..........Then why did you kiss another girl?? Your going to have to earn her trust, its not something that will be given freely again. You have a lot of work ahead of you. Good thing you didnt have sex!!! I'd say find another GF then.
Oh ya! She may forgive you! But she will never let you forget it!!
2006-09-05 18:38:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, she will NEVER forget that you kissed another woman she will always wonder if there was more than kissing going on. As for getting her trust back she will never trust you 100% again there will always be a glimmer of doubt.
2006-09-05 18:38:28 · answer #9 · answered by Pildi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If she was the one you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, you wouldn't have kissed someone else... But if you truly want to keep your girlfriend, it's going to take a long time to build her trust again, if she'll even let you... But it takes a long time!! Good Luck..
2006-09-05 18:36:37 · answer #10 · answered by ray of sunshine 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't have kissed the other girl if it was true love.... i think the feelings you are experiencing are due to not liking rejection rather than feeling the loss of a loved one.
I've been there before.
I wish you luck
2006-09-05 18:36:08 · answer #11 · answered by Gary H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋