I have only been seeing him for about a month, and he was really starting to grow on me.
This makes me think I'm not the only one.
Am I being paranoid?
2006-09-05 11:15:59 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Deep down inside you know what to do.
Don't let him play you like that.
2006-09-05 11:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This does not neccesarily mean that you're not the only one, far from it.Take it from a guy: with some guys, it not as simple as that.Their psychology is such that their friends are divide into several categories, & they do this subconciously, without even thinkin 'bout it. Some categories include: 1.casual, 2 close, 3.rival. If you're together when he meets his friends from category 3 i.e. his rivals, he's not likely to introduce you. This, to him is significant, coz he would only introduce you to the people he really cares about.There is an explanation, just ask him nicely. A group of guys laughin n jokin 2gether can be very fierce rivals under the surface. However you need 2 ask him to introduce you next time, don't nag him, & he will.
2006-09-05 11:36:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, some people are simply raised without being taught manners. But no, I don't think you are being paranoid, I was married to a man who never thought to introduce me ( we seperated shortly after). I also would be very offended and ask him why he did that to you!!! Boys (no matter how old) act like women are not really that important when around their "rat pack", but do talk to him first before writing him off. Sorry for your hurt feelings, BEEN THERE!!!!!!
2006-09-05 14:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by POPPY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No definitely not being paranoid, but you probably should have questioned him right after it happened. Maybe he doesn't want anyone (friends/family) to meet you until he knows if your going to be around for a while. But it's better you just nicely ask what was up? why he didn't introduce you? that's what I would do. Good luck.
2006-09-05 11:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Reckless 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' be paranoid. Some guys just aren't very considerate and don't realize its polite to introduce the person they are with. My husband forgets to introduce me to people all the time.
As far as being 'the only one' i think that would be the opposite. If your guy was dating someone else i would think he would be quick to tell his friends your name so they didn't call you by the other girls name. Understand?
2006-09-05 11:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by MzHazelnut22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been dating this man for a month and he didn't introduce u something is wrong.
option 1-he is seeing someone else
2-he doesn't consider u special enough
3- he's a rude ***
do this-take him around your friends or have your friends run into u at the mall, and don't introduce him. if he gets upset say you did the same thing to me. let me know what happens
2006-09-05 11:19:28 · answer #6 · answered by dark rockchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe a little bit. i don't know.
i think if you keep seeing him it will become more clear how he feels about you and if he is seeing someone else.
is he a shy sort of person?? maybe he didn't introduce you because he's just not very good with introductions.
maybe he's private about relationships around his friends, in general, even though he loves you very much. he might not want to be really showy yet.
if i were you, i'd be more worried about his feelings toward you than i would be about him seeing another girl.
i'd tend to think he might be embarrassed about being seen with you or something like that.
i hope that isn't the case, but guys can probably be like that.
i wouldnt worry that he's seeing another girl, unless you think he looked really nervous around his friends with you.
and was trying to hide you from them or something like that......
good luck!
2006-09-05 11:23:52 · answer #7 · answered by bad_ambassador 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you arent being paranoid, and what he did was rreally rude, if he really cared for you he would made sure his guys knew who you were. I say you do what you have to do, and I think you know what that is, because if he didnt tell his bois who you are, how can you be sure who else he is keeping the realtionship from ,including other girls.
2006-09-05 11:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by TRU ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a spaz. Boys do this...when he becomes a man you, or some other chick, will have trained him otherwise. If he's under 30, most definitley if he's under 25, he's not going to THINK to introduce you. Don't take it personally. You're better than that, prettier than that, and doggone it...people like you!
2006-09-05 11:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by Scadle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your young you have your life a head of you ther r so many good looking girls and men out ther .a month do u think he is kissing on someone els are u just paranoid . are called chatter and then you see for your self if he is true to you it's really up to you
2006-09-05 11:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you have a valid complaint. That is rude and very bad manners not to introduce you. I doesn't make any difference if you are th only one or not.
2006-09-05 11:17:52 · answer #11 · answered by Olivia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋