My dad is yelling at me, and threatning me over the phone saying that I am coming to his house Saturday to clean his house.. I live with my mom and I am trying to get away from all the yelling. But he keeps making me cry and I dont want to go over to his house.. I may kill myself because he is so horrible to me. What should I do?
2006-09-05 11:09:31 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You do not have to go if you are afraid and if your mom makes you go then tell a teacher at school what is going on and they will help you out!
2006-09-05 11:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, record his threats. And consider that maybe your Dad is really sad and is lashing out because it's the only way he knows how to deal with it. Try talking to him, tell him you won't continue the conversation if he yells or threatens you. Talk to your Mom and tell her that you no longer want to visit your Dad. I'm sure it's hard because when your parents split up there was probably orders from the court about custody and visitation. If I were you I'd do what all of the others suggested, hang up. When you know it's him calling, don't answer the phone. Tell your Mom you want any court orders stating that you have to visit your Dad changed. Be prepared for the fact that you might have to testify that you don't want to live with him and that he's emotionally abusive. Kililng yourself won't solve anything. You will never get a chance to know a better life, and your Mom and friends will be left heartbroken. As long as you are alive, there is hope, once you are dead, there is none. Good Luck.
P.S.- If you seriously consider suicide, then you need to be talking to someone you trust that can get you through this. Or call a suicide hotline for some resources and support.
2006-09-05 18:57:42 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a little clearer about how horrible he is to you. Child abuse is against the law. Set down with your Dad and tell him how you feel. If he is a good father and supports you you better help him clean his house. It is a small dept to pay. You will feel much better about your Father if you work with him. You will get more with sugar than salt.
2006-09-05 18:16:16 · answer #3 · answered by short stack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i have the same thing with my mom! i live with my dad but my mom threatens and yells at me too over the phone! all u have to do is ignore it and let it go! let it blow over and just stop talking to ur dad unless he straightens up... tell him u wont have n e thing to do with him if he treats u like that n e more! but dont kill urself sweetie ... do something fun to get ur mind off of him!
2006-09-05 19:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by boicarazi12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in which country do you live, don't you have rights there say no and hang the dam phone up, tell your mom you don't want to have a yelling phase that day and avoid Dad
2006-09-05 18:12:31 · answer #5 · answered by free2chat_tou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mother and if that doesn't work talk to a teacher or counselor. Your father is probably trying to make you feel as bad as he does. Hang in there and live for yourself...I am so sorry that is happening to you but remember it will not be this way always! Best wishes to you!
2006-09-05 18:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Blessed1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that this too will pass.
Teens often commit suicide because they don't realize that things do change. It seems at this moment that life will always be awful, but it's not so.
Do the best you can with the parents you have, one day at a time.
Seek ways to control your own life, but don't ever ever ever give up.
Never never never give up.
2006-09-05 18:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you spoken to your mom about your dad being verbally abusive to you. Also ask your father to go to counseling for anger management.
2006-09-05 18:12:53 · answer #8 · answered by KEY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean his house?...why can't he clean his own house..what's he think u are a maid...if u live there of course it would be fair to help clean up.
2006-09-05 18:12:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first, don't kill yourself.
second, tell him no. Just don't go over there, i'm not really 100% on your situation, but if that is an option, tell him no.
good luck :)
2006-09-05 18:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by kandykidsaturn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋